perrysmom

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| 02/23/2008 7:03 PM |
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I recently adopted a second rattie, and it turns out my other dog, an older rat terrier, just doesn't like her. She tries to get him to play with her, but he's older and ends up biting her every time. He's very stressed by it all, and she obviously needs a more stimuating environment. She's only a year old. I realize that I have to give her up because there's no way they will get along, but don't want to bring her to the pound. Any suggestion? Thanks!
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tauney4

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| 02/23/2008 7:06 PM |
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| is there any way you can sit down with the 2 of them and play with them together and so they could get to know one another better jmop |
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NavyDvrWife

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| 02/23/2008 7:07 PM |
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Hi Perry's Mom - that's too bad that the pair of them isn't working out for you. Whatever you do, DON'T take her to the pound. Ratties do not tend to "show" well in small caged up scenarios. Also, where you end up taking her could be a kill shelter and you don't want to sentence her to death just because your older rattie wants to be an only dog. I commend you for trying to rehome her yourself, just understand that is may take some time. Have you tried contacting Ratbone Rescues? Or listing her in the local paper as "free to good home?" |
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~ Errica, Batman, Blondie and Brock's Mommy Foster Mom to Trinity Ratbone Foster Parent & Happy Tails Crew Ratbone Rescues |
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DaisysMom

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| 02/23/2008 7:09 PM |
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| Where are you located. How long have you had her? And do you have any pics? |
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Tracey - Darlin' Daisy's Mom
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Lucy's Colleen

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| 02/23/2008 7:10 PM |
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Sorry to hear that things didn't work out with the two dogs. But I agree that taking her to the pound would not be the best call. Where are you located? |
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Colleen
Flickr account: http://www.flickr.com/photos/7797281@N05/ |
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perrysmom

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| 02/23/2008 7:11 PM |
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I've been trying every day, and it breaks my heart each time he bites her. My male rat has problems from abuse as a puppy, and I think he freaks out when the young one jumps about too close to him. She also jumps on him, which I try to stop, but he shuts down really fast. I think he'd do well with an older rattie who is mellow like himself, but this girl is scary to him.
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NavyDvrWife

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| 02/23/2008 7:12 PM |
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Hi PerrysMom - we need to know where you're located so we can see if there's anyone in your general area that we know could help. |
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~ Errica, Batman, Blondie and Brock's Mommy Foster Mom to Trinity Ratbone Foster Parent & Happy Tails Crew Ratbone Rescues |
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perrysmom

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| 02/23/2008 7:13 PM |
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I would never take her to the pound. I know how that would end up. I'm in southern CA.
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treble02

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| 02/23/2008 7:23 PM |
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| hmmm...sorry that it did not work out to be a good match for your family. Thanks for coming here to look for help! This place has been known to work miracles. Please post pics and a little more detailed information about her re: potty training, temperament, age, etc. so that we can know a little better about how to help your baby |
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~ Mary, Trixi and Toa's Mommy, Ratbone Rescues Database Manager and Applications Coordinator
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SYLVIA

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| 02/23/2008 7:56 PM |
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Wish you lived on East Coast. Still trying to find TOBY a playmate.Ratbone Rescue is really adopting out the dogs. Has anyone else checked it today? Was so glad to see the dogs are going to forever homes. I have applied for several and they were gone or adoption pending. Good work they do. So do the ones on this website. You all will be blessed. sylvia |
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CaseyOtis

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| 02/23/2008 8:19 PM |
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What part of SoCal are you in? |
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You have two hands, you might as well have two ratties....right?
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milly

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| 02/23/2008 8:35 PM |
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| Have you tried working him out and training before you put them together?? Also in my experience with rescue and what not...my female was that way until she finally got a chance to fight the other dog..maybe a dominence thing...all I can say is that I always had the hose ready, but they also are not ratties...I hope that there someway we can help..and you can contact me anytime via private message or here....Milly |
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talatzkomom

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| 02/23/2008 8:47 PM |
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I agree too! don't be so quick to give up! having 3 Shamus has a temper with Cash ALL the time! Actually he kind of hates him! But even when they get into a shouting/snapping match they work it out... and soon I'll find them hanging out like nothing ever happened! i don't think Shamus LIKES cash 'cause CASH IS hYPER AND HE IS NOT! So cash will give up and go play by hiself,Shamus LOVES old caesar cause he is calm too!Maybe its cause I have three... but even when I had 6 they work it out! just like little kids.. |
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Da'Boys! L'Caesar,Cash-Man,Polo,& ShamusO'Reiley Black N White Rules! |
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Sassy'sMama

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| 02/23/2008 9:07 PM |
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Hi I feel for ya ... I've been in your shoes ... I have a Rattie almost 2 yrs.. ( Sassy) I adopted another Rattie, and took in a stray ... Sassy hated both of them and treated them like dirt... I had to re-home both of them to bring harmony back into the house... sassy is now a different dog, calmer, she has resumed using the puppy pads and going outside.. No one would look down on you for having to re-home the dog... these things happen... |
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~~Jan~~ Mama to Sassy
www.marykay.com/janetkimberlin (free shipping) |
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GothGirl

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| 02/23/2008 9:36 PM |
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Oh thats terrible that you have to get rid of your dog. And I agree with NavyDvrsWife. Do not take him the pound. or a shelter. It could be one of those that put dogs to sleep if they are not able to place them in new homes after a certain amount of time. Have you tried craigslist? You could put and add on there and give him away to a good home and you can even charge a re-homing fee if you want to. Hope everything works out. |
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Hayden

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| 02/23/2008 9:39 PM |
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I am in Southern California, San Diego and I know there are a few of us here. My husband would pretty much kill me if we got another puppy, but I will do what I can to help. We are driving to South Dakota next month and could meet someone along the way or drop the puppy off if we find a home for her. We are going to be on a pretty tight schedule, but we'll do what we can. My husband won't let us foster or anything (he knows I'd have to keep it ). |
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perrysmom

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| 02/25/2008 8:13 AM |
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Thanks for all your comments and help. After a lot of thought and soul-searching, I realized I can't give my girl up. I'm going to work on helping these two to get along better. After observing them over the weekend, I saw that the conflicts come up when she is feeling frisky and wants to play. Naturally she seeks out another dog, and that's when there's a problem. So I tried playing with her myself at those times, and it was okay. I see that she settles down and naps after playing, too. Maybe I was worrying too much about how her behavior affects the older dog. He doesn't actively dislike her, just gets upset when she jumps on him and things like that. It was heartbreaking to think of giving my girl up. She's such a sweet and loving rattie. Thanks everyone. pm |
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Vickie

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| 02/25/2008 8:54 AM |
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Hi Perry's Mom:
I know what you're going through. I got a puppy last August (a little girl) and already had a 5yr old rattie named Mikey. Well Mikey was used to being an only child and the lady I got the puppy, Alice, from said that sometimes I would think he was going to hurt her, but he was setting limits with her. He has never actually hurt her (her feelings maybe!). He still gets aggravated at her, but they've always managed to work it out. She knows when to back off now, but she loves to taunt him (I think he really likes it too!). Just give it time and they will probably come around. I was worried to death about it for maybe 3 or 4 months. Good luck! |
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mommabird

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| 02/25/2008 8:58 AM |
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First off-welcome to the site! I'm glad to see that you are giving things another chance. Dixie was seven and had been an only dog for several years when I got Buddy and things were touchy at first. Dixie resented him and didn't take too kindly to his energy. After awhile she ajdusted and they started getting along much better. She will still "put him in his place" when he gets too rowdy, but no one gets hurt. And it's a treat to watch them play. Buddy keeps her young ;-) Dixie will even iniatiate play at times. Buddy is 2 1/2 now and Dixie is going on 10 and they get along well. Your older dog will set boundaries with the younger one and she'll learn her place in the pack. I feel that things will work out with time. Good luck and keep us posted. |
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mommabird (Rachel)
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Hayden

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| 02/25/2008 10:21 AM |
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| Where in Southern CA are you? Maybe the group of us can arrange a play date somewhere. My puppy loves to play. She annoys dogs with her energy too. |
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tiggarat

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| 02/25/2008 6:41 PM |
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I'm glad to hear you are giving her a second chance. I'm sure she'll figure out that your old guy does not want to play. I had an older male dobie mix who disliked the pups when I brought them home...he snapped and flashed his teeth any time they came too close. He was just setting his limits...he didn't want them playing with him or too close to him or jumping on him. He grew to love them, once they figured out his rules and tried to follow them. When they were calm, he'd give them kisses and snuggle with them. It took a few weeks for him to accept them as part of the family, but he did. I think the ratties helped give him a better quality life in his last year than he would have had otherwise. He had more energy and loved to watch them play...from a safe distance, that is. |
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Lisabeth
furbabies: Lucy and Molly (1 1/2 yr old decker ratties), and Rosie (3 yr old dobie) Buddy - gone but never forgotten.
"I don't think he has any idea he's a dog, really. Of course, he thinks he has a rather odd figure for a man" - Dodie Smith |
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talatzkomom

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| 02/26/2008 3:40 PM |
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I can attest to that too! Caesar is 5 now and he is the best now on teaching pups to behave!When I firt got the pups he wasn't so good I call'd it "he wanted to be 1st DOG!"now he is ok with it...he still gets to be 1st dog too,and have siblings to anoy him.ITS GOOD FOR HIM!He acts like a dog now! not a spoiled kid! |
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Da'Boys! L'Caesar,Cash-Man,Polo,& ShamusO'Reiley Black N White Rules! |
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Caesar & Julia's mom

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| 02/27/2008 5:27 PM |
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Must be the name...hehehe~ my Caesar wasn't too sure about the idea of having a sister (Julia) but after a while he calmed down and now they are best friends! |
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Diane~ loved by Caesar and Julia
"Don't count the days, make the days count..."
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gwacie

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| 02/27/2008 8:56 PM |
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Sounds like your 1yr old needs to learn some manners and your old man is gonna just tell her what he thinks of her behavior until she gets it. They may have a serious scuffle or two but if he isn't breaking the skin and if she stops buggin him when he bites her then she's getting schooled. I'm going through it right niow with our pesty 9 month old foster RT and our 11 yo old TFT who is head of house (under us of course). The puppy could choose to play with the 3 year old RT who LOVES to play but no, he has to bug the old man. I mostly let them work it out so long as it's not over the top. Good luck! |
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