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rattytatty

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| 07/14/2008 6:10 AM |
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| Geez..... |
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~Nora~ Mom to Hoss, Lil'Bit, Buster & Bailey, CGC, OA, OAJ |
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DaisysMom

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| 07/14/2008 6:30 AM |
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Thanks for taking the time to explain the "why"s and "wherefore"s of your post, Jan. I didn't "mean" anything by my post anymore than you did yours. But perhaps I shall explain myself since there appears to still be a need for clarification. My breeding post did not just "turn into" a rescue post and thus have no place in this forum. I will defend the "appropriateness" of this post in this forum. Breeding and rescue go hand-in-hand, or should, anyway in my oh-so-humble opinion. I could ask for a show of hands from how many people here first purchased a rat terrier from a breeder or elsewhere, and subsequently ended up rescuing one (or more) because of the realization and awareness (much of which I hope as a result of being a member here) that there are so many thousands of rat terriers in need of a good home. Or the even greater number, who after acquiring his or her rat terrier in any way, have become aware of the huge numbers dying in shelters and have then dedicated themselves to donating, volunteering, and supporting rescue in general. Surely this cannot be a bad thing. I will also point out that there has always been a lack of knowledge of the general public as to just how many pure breeds of any type are available for adoption. For some reason, many people still have the subconscious attitude that rescue dogs come from "pounds" and can't ever be fully trusted or guaranteed or whatever. Forgive me (and others) for mentioning the truth when someone joins and is thinking of buying a puppy. In the interest of being "fair and balanced", I think this would be a good thing...giving someone knowledge and all the options available. Never once have I, nor most others, disparaged anyone who went with a good breeder instead of rescue. They are welcome with open arms as much as anyone else and I goo and gaa over the puppy pics, too, and offer advice where I can on their new addition. I have never been a proponent or elitist who believes that the only breeders of rat terriers should be those whose ratties come from champion bloodlines. I have on many, many occasions questioned the admittance of the breed by the AKC and worry about the thinning of the genetics, etc. I've made enough posts about this subject. It appears there are some varying definitions of the term "backyard" breeder. I do not, and never have, had a problem with those who have a HEALTHY (and that seems to be term most in need of defining, doesn't it?) rat terrier breeding it with another HEALTHY rat terrier. However, I do not (and never will) believe it's enough for your average lay person to say, "My rattie is healthy(i.e. isn't sick) and looks good, so I'm going to breed her with this other person I know's rat terrier who also looks healthy". I do not believe that it is asking too much to create "pet quality" pups that don't have luxating patellas or other genetic issues. I do not believe that is asking too much to assure that the parent dogs are both of the same type and size, and I do not believe that is asking too much to not breed dogs who are too young. None of the above require that the parent dogs be of champion bloodlines with pedigrees going back generation upon generation. What it does require is a modicum of common sense. Perhaps that is asking too much. |
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gwacie

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| 07/14/2008 7:15 AM |
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Wow. When the pet quality issue was raised I am the one who posted that IN MY EXPERIENCE the terminology came from (originally) the show lines - pet quality dogs were dogs not finished to champion and the designation meant they were to be altered and not bred. That wasn't a judgement, my post, it was a fact that this is where it comes from. I'm not sure how you guys turned it into a judgment issue. I didn't say I thought that was the only way to breed, I was giving the definition of the TERMS PET VS. SHOW as I know them, nothing more. Didn't mean to start more drama. Jan, I am certain that RBR greatly appreciates your sacrifice of pain in making the neck pieces we collaborated on for auction. I wish you had told me it was too much for you because I could have made them up myself, I just wanted to include you (since doing rescue work always makes me feel so good - just sharing the experience was all). You did a lovely job on them and I know the money we raised will be well received and well used. Tracey, your last post really is very well written and sums up what I feel very much. I have not much to add to it - if everyone involved in this drama would read it carefully I think they'd see it is supportive of both breeding and rescue in a very real and rational way. Ok stop fighting, we all love our ratties rescued and breeder stock - now go find Mitch he probably has cake! |
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gwacie (Bethany) My Doggies: http://www.myadams.net/dogs/ Rescue: http://www.newrattitude.org |
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swatson6

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| 07/14/2008 7:31 AM |
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I second Nora. Geez.......
But I do want to add that stating that to afford a dog it has to be from an inexperienced breeder who doesn't put the testing into the dogs that they should makes no sense to me. I know my issue is with so called breeders that are breeding stock they they KNOW have issues that should not be passed onand ones that are too young to be bred yet. Different types, bad patellas, health issues that are genetic.... All of these should not be passed on in the breed. And because you can go out and by a pup for practically nothing out of 2 dogs that were bred just because? You could very well get a healthy pup, but you could also very well get those genetic issues passed on to the pup that would eventually cost the owner more in the long run. If the research and time is put into breeding a dog by the owner, I am okay with that. They don't have to have champion bloodlines but they DO have to be healthy and free of bad genetic traits. Spending a little more up front may save ou more in the long run. Breeding is not a money game. If someone is on it to make $ then they should find another hobby. Breeding should be based on the joy of bettering the breed, passing along desired traits and weeding out undesired ones. You don't have to be a huge breeder with lots of litters but in my mind you do need to do the work and put in the effort to make sure everything is in place before you leap. The problem so much around here lately is we have to many not doing these simple things.
And also to add that if I remember correctly this post was also posted at the time we had a large influx of "breeders" asking questions about breeding their dogs who had NO CLUE what they were doing. Pups who were way to young and people who could barely type a post, much less make sure they were breeding dogs worthy of breeding. |
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Sarah Mom to Jack, Jeter and foster mom to Teagan
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Lance

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| 07/14/2008 7:38 AM |
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| This is ridiculous. |
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swatson6

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Katie'sMom

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| 07/14/2008 8:07 AM |
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OKAY - LET ME MAKE THIS CLEAR
1. GWACIE -- I WANTED TO MAKE THE NECKLACE BECAUSE I WANTED TO SUPPORT RESCUE AND SO THE "MAKING IT IN PAIN' REFERENCE WAS TRYING TO ENFORCE TO EVERYONE THAT I DO SUPPORT OF RESCUE FOR THOSE WHO HAVE THAT INCLINATION. I HAVE BEEN INVOLVED WITH RESCUING DOGS LONG BEFORE RAT TERRIER. COM. EVEN EXSISTED. REMEMBER, I WORKED IN VETERINARY MEDICINE FOR YEARS AND WE DID RESCUE WORK. I CONTINUED ON DOING IT ON MY OWN IN OUR SMALL TOWN - NOT RATTIES BECAUSE I LOVE 'EM ALL. I AM ALSO PERSONALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR RESCUING LOTS OF CATS, BECAUSE THEY ARE SWEET, LIVING, BREATHING, CREATURES TOO.
2.. MY POINT IS THIS POST WENT TOO FAR AND WAS AN EDITORIAL ON BREEDING WHICH TURNED INTO AN EDITORIAL MOSTLY AGAINST BREEDING PINNED AT THE TOP OF A BREEDING SECTION. THERE ARE GOOD "BACKYARD" BREEDERS WHO MAY DO IT SO THEIR CHILDREN CAN EXPERIENCE THE BIRTHING PROCESS, OR BECAUSE THEY WANT ANOTHER PUP FROM THEIR SPECIAL DOG -- THEY DO THE RESEARCH, THE GET THE VET CARE, THE DO A GOOD JOB. I HAVE SEEN THAT FIRST HAND ALSO -- AGAIN WORKING IN VETERINARY MEDICINE AND THEY USUALLY DON'T MAKE ONE CENT. BREEDING A LITTER OF PUPS FOR YOUR CHILDREN IS NOT NECESSARILY THE WRONG REASON TO BRED IF YOU DO YOUR HOMEWORK. BREEDING TO EARN BUCKS MAY BE.
AND SORRY, BUT THE LAST LINE IN YOUR POST TRACEY - BEGGING PEOPLE TO RECONSIDER BREEDING AND TO ADOPT COMES ACROSS AS ANTI-BREEDING WHETHER YOU INTENDED IT TO OR NOT.
***AGAIN I ASK THIS QUESTION. ARE WE A SITE WHERE PEOPLE CAN COME FOR INFOMATION, SO IF THEY WANT TO BREED THEY CAN FIND GOOD INFORMATION TELLING THEM HOW TO DO IT CORRECTLY WITHOUT THE GUILT TRIP? OR ARE WE NOW JUST A RESCUE ONLY SITE? MAKES NO DIFFERENCE TO ME -- LET'S JUST DO AWAY WITH THE BREEDING FORUM ALL TOGETHER.
SO I JUST ASK SOMONE IN AUTHORITY TO LET ME KNOW WHAT THE PURPOSE OF THIS SITE NOW IS. ARE WE A ROUNDED SITE, HERE TO WELCOME AND CELEBRATE THE BREED, SEND PEOPLE IN DIRECTIONS FOR INFORMATIVE ANSWERS TO THEIR QUESTIONS WITHOUT BEATING THEM UP FOR ASKING THE WRONG QUESTIONS. ARE DOES RAT-TERRIER.COM NOW HAVE AN OFFICIAL POLICY ON BREEDING AND RESCUE (AS OUTLINED BY THE PINNED MODERATOR ARTICLE ABOVE) AND ANYONE THAT STRAYS FROM THAT POLICY SHOULD LOOK ELSEWHERE FOR ANSWER TO THEIR QUESIONS. AGAIN, ANSWERS NOT EDITORIALS. (AND YES, EVERYONE CAN HAVE AN OPINION - A PINNED MODERATOR ARTICLE APPEARS AS A SITE EDITORIAL AND NOT AN INDIVIDUAL OPINION) JUST ANSWER THAT QUESTION FOR ME PLEASE. I KNOW WHICH SIDE OF THE FENCE EVERYONE IS ON INDVIDUALLY SO I REALLY DON'T NEED EVERYONE'S OPIPION, I KNOW YOU ALL WELL ENOUGH I ALREADY KNOW WHAT IT IS - I JUST WANT MY QUESTION ANSWERED. THANK YOU.*** |
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Check out Katie Scarlett and Company, KS's new site (includes magazine): Katie Scarlett and Company
And email her at: katiescarlettorattie@gmail.com
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gwacie

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| 07/14/2008 8:21 AM |
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I am confused. Jan, aren't you a moderator? Don't you guys have a moderator forum to discuss policies and stuff? All my forums that I've been involved in have that - makes this sort of problem much easier to work out when it's a question of policy or if a post is in the right place. Not trying to be snarky, I am just seriously wondering why you guys don't handle this behind the scenes and then present a united front on whatever you all decide. Me, I am just happy that we HAVE a forum like this. It's a great place to play. |
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gwacie (Bethany) My Doggies: http://www.myadams.net/dogs/ Rescue: http://www.newrattitude.org |
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Amy

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| 07/14/2008 8:21 AM |
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Oh lord. This whole thing makes me very sad. Compared to alot of you I am still fairly new here. That being said I feel confident in saying, Jan, this just is not like you. I have NEVER felt that RT.com is against anyone buying a puppy. We simply want to educate the general public on "responsible" breeding. Nothing wrong with that. |
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Katie'sMom

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| 07/14/2008 8:32 AM |
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Posted By gwacie on 07/14/2008 8:21 AM
I am confused. Jan, aren't you a moderator? Don't you guys have a moderator forum to discuss policies and stuff? All my forums that I've been involved in have that - makes this sort of problem much easier to work out when it's a question of policy or if a post is in the right place.
Not trying to be snarky, I am just seriously wondering why you guys don't handle this behind the scenes and then present a united front on whatever you all decide.
Me, I am just happy that we HAVE a forum like this. It's a great place to play.
Yes, we do have a moderator forum but this is not a moderator issue -- this is an opinion issue. Tracey's post is her opinion not the site opinion, unless someone forgot to tell me. She posted her opinion and I am posting mine.
Because I am a moderator, does that mean I can't have a differing opinion with another moderator? Moderators give their opinion publically all the time - I can't?
However, due to what appears to be huge philosophical differences with the tone of this site, I am getting ready to stop being a moderator. 
Writing my resignation as we speak. What!!!! I hear a lot of shout of joy out there. Don't shout too loudly - not leaving the site, just don't want to be officially connected anymore.  |
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Check out Katie Scarlett and Company, KS's new site (includes magazine): Katie Scarlett and Company
And email her at: katiescarlettorattie@gmail.com
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gwacie

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| 07/14/2008 8:35 AM |
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| NO I mean cuz you said (oriignally) that it was posted in the wrong spot (breeder vs. rescue) and then you were asking for an official stance from the site owner. Those things I thought were your issues so those I thought were like admin behind the scenes stuff. |
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gwacie (Bethany) My Doggies: http://www.myadams.net/dogs/ Rescue: http://www.newrattitude.org |
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PamWh

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| 07/14/2008 8:45 AM |
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In the words of Rodney King, "can't we all just get along?" |
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PamWh aka Bob's Mom
If your rattie ain't happy, ain't nobody happy! |
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wmars1776

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| 07/14/2008 8:48 AM |
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I think everyone needs to take a deep breath and move on. This is an issue that even among friends won't be resolved. Irregardless of the issue, I know that nobody meant to criticize nor hurt anyone. |
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Bill - "Smokey's" Dad Cumberland, Rhode Island
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Yukon Cornelius

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daisydeux

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Lance

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| 07/14/2008 10:00 AM |
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You wanted an official response, here it is. 1. It upsets me that someone has such strong feelings against the site, especially a moderator. I would hope that a moderator in the future would not make such claims without having pointed to specific messages. If the site has taken on an "anti-breeding tone", I would expect to have seen the alert button pressed many times so that I would be notified of such messages. But I did not see any such thing. I saw a pointer to this thread, and another message just recently, and thats it. I don't see it. 2. I don't believe there is an anti breeding tone here. I do believe there is a desire to encourage responsible breeding, and a desire (if not a duty?) to point out places where someone might have done something they should not have (such as breeding unhealthy animals!). Most of us do not have rescue pups. I hope nobody looks down on me because Anna is not a rescue, but if they do that is their problem and not mine, and I'm not going to get all upset about it. For the record: I believe that rescue is a great thing, I plan to rescue next time I get a dog. I also love puppies, and I plan to own more puppies in the future as well. I will not be doing any breeding myself, because I do not have the required knowledge. If somebody else wants to, fine. If somebody else wants to get their puppy from a rescue site, I think thats even better. If somebody else wants to do it, and they want to post here so that they can become better informed, I think thats great and I would hope they would be given all the advice we could give them. I also think the rescue alternative should be presented (not forced, and not guilted) to them, in case they just haven't considered it. 3. I saw no attack from Tracey in her original post in this thread. What I did see was a post saying (paraphrasing) "if you're not going to breed responsibly, dont!". What in the world is wrong with that? Absolutely nothing. If you are not going to put in the time to know what you're doing and take care of your dogs and puppies, you have no business arranging breeding for them. I don't think any sensible person can deny that, otherwise they'd basically be saying "anybody can breed their animals even if they don't know how to take proper care of them", which is just ridiculous. Anymore questions that you'd like an "official" answer to? |
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Katie'sMom

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| 07/14/2008 10:01 AM |
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| Got it and see ya |
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Check out Katie Scarlett and Company, KS's new site (includes magazine): Katie Scarlett and Company
And email her at: katiescarlettorattie@gmail.com
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Tinkerbelle's Mommy

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| 07/14/2008 11:24 AM |
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Ok, I hesitate to even write this on this thread because I feel it is a new topic ,but maybe this thread will just go away magically and I think that would not be such a bad idea...Maybe there could just be a topic header that states the site officially wants people to be responsible breeders before they post here.
It is true that there is a definite negative tone on here about breeding. Go back and look at every post of someone who has had puppies and when they originally post, things turn ugly. Most people are discouraged from breeding and maybe that's not a bad thing, most people should not be breeders. But, if you want information on breeding your rat terrier or to talk with other breeders, it would be nice to have a forum where you can get good information...not opinion, but good solid advice.
After, the way that Bailey Duke and Gracie Mae were treated...I am so glad that Holly stayed on the site and has become a great member. I remember feeling very sorry for her because she came on here happy and ready to be welcomed and had to face a lot of negativity and the breeding had already taken place. After the way Donna was treated, there was no way that I was going to post about my Tinkerbelle. But, I did privately let some members know and they encouraged me to come foreward and said that they would support me....and they did. My news has been met with very positive feedback and I do notice that some of the opponents of my breeding have not posted at all, which is fine...I didn't want my news to start up a new fight. I am a first time breeder and there are some things that I wanted to talk to other seasoned breeders about. Jan encouraged me to come to the breeders forum to post my questions. I did tell her that the breeders forum was really an anti-breeding forum unless you are breeding champions or show quality. It was when she responded to my post that she saw this thread. I know that Tracey means well. I completely support Ratbone Rescue and have given money, attended the Jamboree and helped with a transport, but that doesn't mean that I didn't still want to breed my dog. Because of this site, I came within 24 hours of spaying her, but then my heart kicked in. I bought Tinkerbelle with the idea that I would one day breed her. I have people all of the time telling me how beautiful she is and asking if I will breed her. I have puppies already spoken for. I was told by 3 vets now that luxating patella's are genetic in all small breeds...you can try to breed them out, but due to the small, fine bone structure, it is always going to be a problem with small breeds. I have had breeders tell me that just because a dog is OFA certified that does not mean that their puppies won't have a luxating patella. Also, just because a parent dog has luxating patella's does not mean that the offspring will have them. It's all a crapshoot. You do the best you can to get the best you can. Tinkerbelle only has luxating patella's when the vet manipulates her knee. She does not have the 3 legged skip. I was also told by a breeder here not to let the vet manipulate a puppies knee before age 1 as they can cause it slip when they are young. So, if you don't let the vet check it, How do you know that your puppies are all clear? Like I said you do your best and the rest is up to God. There are excellent breeders who spend a fortune on testing and showing to get the highest quality dogs and I imagine that their dogs are expensive...I'm not saying they do it for money, but I had no intention of showing my dog, so I"m not going to pay $1000 for a dog. I support them on what they do. I don't think badly of them and I hope that they don't think badly of me. I"m sure that they all started somewhere with some beloved pet.
I am doing the best I can by my dog. She is getting excellent pre-natal care, I am doing everything that I can to keep her healthy. I did try to find a stud with good quality patellas and a good temperment. I can only pray that my puppies will be healthy because at some point it is out of my hands, but I'm doing everything I can to educate myself on breeding. This is a site that I've been a member of for almost 2 years and I came very close to not posting that my dog was pregnant and keeping it a secret. I did not try to find a stud on here even though there probably were some very high quality studs on this site...I was too afraid to post. So, Lance I just want you to know Jan is not totally off base. The site is hard on anyone asking information on breeding. As Bratt said in a post, if you need to ask a question, you shouldn't be here...that kind of sums it up. If you have questions, don't come here.
I'm sorry for all of the fuss. I am sorry that some of you think I'm a "backyard breeder". I had a dream and I wanted to pursue it and try to become a breeder. I wanted to start small and build upward. Now, I think I'm just going to keep a boy and I'll neuter him and I'll spay Tinkerbelle. If I am ever inclined to breed again, I'll go buy some show quality champions and start big instead of small, but I would think you would need a lot of money to get started that way...I bet that most breeders don't start that way. But, that is just my opinion.
Carol
It's a great site to post pictures and have fun, but the breeder section is really just for the breeders to show their latest achievements. |
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swatson6

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| 07/14/2008 11:32 AM |
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| Carol, all I have to say is at least you have done your research, you spoke with many people, you have a healthy dog despite the patellas, you took the time to look into colors, you waited until Tinkerbelle was old enough, you bred 2 of the same types........................ yeah I could go on and on. You may not be breeding "show dogs", but you put the effort into researching what you wanted to do before you did it and you made the right choices along the way in how to go about it. It is those who don't take those steps that many of us have an issue with. |
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Sarah Mom to Jack, Jeter and foster mom to Teagan
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Mitzy's Mom

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| 07/14/2008 11:48 AM |
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I agree with Sarah. Carol, you did your research and were prepared...hence you received only positive responses to your posts. What is this about only show-quality dogs should be bred and somehow you think a puppy from a good breeder should cost $1000? (Not directing this just to Carol but anyone who thinks this.) I bought Mayfly from a wonderful breeder who does not show her dogs, breeds out of her house (which is certainly preferable) and I paid $400 for her - well worth it. The breeder did her research, tested, had the means to breed, etc. And yes, a recent post by a member expecting puppies got exactly the response she wanted it to get. No tragedy is an excuse for EXTREMELY irresponsible breeding. The responses to that post were not personal against the member but against what had been done. |
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Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids
Georgia Foster Mom, New Rattitude Check out our ratties at www.newrattitude.org |
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Katie'sMom

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| 07/14/2008 12:50 PM |
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Thank you Carol - Y'all don't miss the point of Carol's post - she was AFRAID to post her dog was pregnant. Doesn't that speak volumes? Mary Beth, you know, I've always thought of you as a friend, and still do (though you may not - but I think friends can strongly disagree on issues) but I read the same exact post you did from "that person" (who we all know was Donna) - and I do not see how you can know she got the response she "wanted" to get. In fact, I do believe she was in tears over the responses she got. I just can't see everything quite as black and white as some of you do. Call me overly-sensitive. |
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Check out Katie Scarlett and Company, KS's new site (includes magazine): Katie Scarlett and Company
And email her at: katiescarlettorattie@gmail.com
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alice4512

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| 07/14/2008 12:55 PM |
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Katie's Mom, I surely wish you the best in whatever endeavor life holds for you next. I am glad you will be stopping in because your Katie Scarlett is a pretty dog and I enjoy all your posts.
I am try to stay off the whole subject of "breeding" as my opionion is pretty known on the subject whether responsible or not. I still enjoy puppies and all that comes with them, it's not their fault so many of them come into the world. That being said I think with so many out there needing homes, anyone brining more into the world just works against that. My opionion, just as breeders have theirs. Will we ever all agree, probably not, but that is why there is freedom of speech. I never post to hurt anyones feelings only to express my views.
Good luck and I hope you pop back now and then. |
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The great pleasure of a dog is that you may make a fool of yourself with him and not only will he not scold you, but he will make a fool of himself too
~Mom to my good boy Fred and my crazy girl Alice~ Proud applications coordinator for Ratbone Rescue |
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melo

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| 07/14/2008 1:29 PM |
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I mentioned this in my last message but maybe it was not strong enough--- There have been at least three people that have asked about new puppies from breeders and were encouraged to rescue. When the person(s) said they wanted the new pups, they were once again and maybe a third time asked if they wanted to rescue. I can look it all up and cut and paste if I must--but these are just the facts. That does not make the board anti-breeding persay, but it can intimidate newbies or anyone for that matter to discuss matters of breeding just for curiosities sake. As a city slicker I will never breed but have an interest in all things rat---I would like to know about what champion lines means--I love all the minutia (sp) that involves the process. I do not feel totally comfortable asking these things because I do not know if I would be told, it does not matter---etc etc. I understand what Jan was getting at. I have had nice posts from most of the people involved in this here thread. I do not want to fight as it might not even be my fight, but I cant help saying what I have seen. best Mel |
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Lance

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| 07/14/2008 1:34 PM |
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Carol - nice post. I'm glad that you made a well informed decision, and I'm glad that Tinkerbelle has such a great mom. I will go back and look for the message threads you speak of. If you happen to remember them maybe you could send me the links, if not I will just search and see what I can find. Sarah and MB - yep. Jan - Donna has done nothing but start and stir drama here for the last year. Everyone can still read the infamous thread. It is quite clear that she was the first one to start hurling the insults. I feel for her, we have all lost loved ones. I think its way past time for us to put that particular message thread behind us and move on. All others - check out the "Alert" button at the top of each message. In the future, if you see a message that you find offensive, please feel free to click it so that I can read the message for myself. That will help me avoid situations like this one. L |
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wmars1776

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| 07/14/2008 1:39 PM |
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Hey Lance, do you mean the yellow alert button up in the area the "edit" button used to be......Oh, Oh |
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Bill - "Smokey's" Dad Cumberland, Rhode Island
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Lance

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| 07/14/2008 1:48 PM |
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Posted By wmars1776 on 07/14/2008 1:39 PM
Hey Lance, do you mean the yellow alert button up in the area the "edit" button used to be......Oh, Oh
Yep. Oh, and for those of you who never figured out why the "edit" button went away? If we had never had the edit button, this entire drama might not be going on right now.
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Katie'sMom

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| 07/14/2008 2:18 PM |
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Posted By Lance on 07/14/2008 1:34 PM
Carol - nice post. I'm glad that you made a well informed decision, and I'm glad that Tinkerbelle has such a great mom. I will go back and look for the message threads you speak of. If you happen to remember them maybe you could send me the links, if not I will just search and see what I can find.
Sarah and MB - yep.
Jan - Donna has done nothing but start and stir drama here for the last year. Everyone can still read the infamous thread. It is quite clear that she was the first one to start hurling the insults. I feel for her, we have all lost loved ones. I think its way past time for us to put that particular message thread behind us and move on.
All others - check out the "Alert" button at the top of each message. In the future, if you see a message that you find offensive, please feel free to click it so that I can read the message for myself. That will help me avoid situations like this one.
L
As I have said repeatedly, the responses in Donna's thread were the LAST straw for me. This has been going on for a while. Many months before Donna's post. And yes, we have all lost loved one -- few of us have lived with a critically ill child, spent 5 months constantly at the hospital with him only to watch him bleed to death before your eyes. It has been less than a year! Honestly, some people on this site show more sympathy for the loss of a dog. Consider the circumstances.
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You continue to bring this up, over and over. Can you please stop now? I am aware of how long it has been. I am aware of the circumstances. I am also considerate enough to stop throwing it in her and everybody else's faces. I doubt that Donna comes here so she can relive your fabulous description. I've had enough of this. I am locking this thread. |
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