DaisysMom
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| 01/03/2008 8:06 AM |
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| I am so hopeful that this will all work out. Looking forward to hearing an update from Patricia or Artie this weekend. |
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Tracey - Darlin' Daisy's Mom
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Katie'sMom
Terrier Terror
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| 01/03/2008 8:56 AM |
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Well, I agree -- Artie is a "helluva" guy and I never got the impression he was thinking of taking Sadie to a shelter - just didn't seem to have ever entered his mind to do so -- but I know it is a worry we all have. But, Artie has posted so much about wanting the best for Sadie, I just never worried that he would dump her in a shelter!
Artie, I am so sorry to learn of your wife losing her battle with breast cancer. I am a 14 year survivor of breast cancer and have a very dear friend who lost his wife about the same time I was battling my Stage 2 cancer. I remind myself often what a lucky woman I am to have won my battle. We often can forget that breast cancer is still a killer as there are also so many survivors.
It is totally understandable that your Buttons & Bows is a special girl to you. A living tribute to the memory of your dear wife. You know, you have been through so much and it is commendable that you have tried with Sadie. I imagine you are a man that values life to the fullest.
I think Morgan understands that you were upset -- she is a sweet girl with a loving heart -- so I bet all is well between the two of you.
Don't feel badly that it didn't work out with Sadie. You tried and you were willing to take her in, and that is more than most people (me included) could do. Sounds like things will work out for Miss Sadie and I do hope you will continue on as a member here. We would love to keep up with you and BB and you can keep up with Sadie as well.
Bless you for your attempts to help and remember, we are all only human and can only handle so much. Sounds like your plate has been plenty full over the last few years. You just enjoy that little girl BB and keep us posted with stories about her!
God Bless You! |
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Katie Scarlett and Company
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ARTIE
Rattie
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| 01/03/2008 9:36 AM |
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Thank you Katie for those kind words. No kill shelter , never ever. 
Still waiting for Pat to call. Sent her an e-mail and told her I would go a couple hours from my house to meet her. And if she changes her mind then Sadie stays with me.
Thanks again Artie |
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PamWh
Rattitude Problem
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| 01/03/2008 9:42 AM |
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| Artie, is that Sadie in your avatar or BB? |
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PamWh
aka Bob's Mom
If your rattie ain't happy, ain't nobody happy! |
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Katie'sMom
Terrier Terror
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| 01/03/2008 10:08 AM |
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Posted By ARTIE on 01/03/2008 9:36 AM
Thank you Katie for those kind words. No kill shelter , never ever.
Still waiting for Pat to call. Sent her an e-mail and told her I would go a couple hours from my house to meet her. And if she changes her mind then Sadie stays with me.
Thanks again Artie
Artie, don't try to keep Sadie if this doesn't work out. We will all keep working to try and find her a home. Don't take on more than you can deal with.
Love ya, Jan |
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Check out Katie Scarlett and Company, KS's new site (includes magazine):
Katie Scarlett and Company
And email her at:
katiescarlettorattie@gmail.com
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ARTIE
Rattie
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| 01/03/2008 10:26 AM |
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| GUESS I KNOW I'M NUTS AND DRIVING EVERYBODY CRAZY BUT I JUST CAN'T LOOK INTO SADIE'S LOVING EYES AND GIVE HER UP. I DO LOVE HER AND SHE IS STAYING. I BEEN A BASKET CASE SINCE I SEAD I WAS GIVING HER UP. I FEEL LIKE A LOAD IS OFF MY BACK. CRAZY MAN ARTIE |
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rattagan's mom
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
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| 01/03/2008 10:32 AM |
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| Artie, is she staying with you and BB or going to Patricia's? Bless you, you are a sweet, caring, loving man. |
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Janie,
Ratty,Cameo,Cutter and Nala Belle's Mom
Show your furbaby how much you love them brush their teeth today! It saves them pain "tomorrow." Janie L. |
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NIckle's Mom
Ratastic
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| 01/03/2008 10:40 AM |
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| Artie just emailed me and decided he was keeping Sadie, and that is fine, I told him if he changes his mind that I would still gladly take her, as I was looking forward to her being a part of our pack. |
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"Minds are like parachutes - they only function when open" |
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ARTIE
Rattie
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| 01/03/2008 10:41 AM |
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SADIE IS STAYING WERE SHE BELONGS I DON'T HAVE THE HEART TO LET HER GO |
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ARTIE
Rattie
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| 01/03/2008 10:42 AM |
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PAT I'M SO SORRY , I JUST CAN'T DO IT. |
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swatson6
Attention Starved
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| 01/03/2008 10:44 AM |
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Wow, this is confusing Good luck Artie. Are you going to try to crate her at night? |
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Sarah
Mom to Jack, Jeter and foster mom to Teagan
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rattagan's mom
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
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| 01/03/2008 10:45 AM |
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 ARTIE, IT'S A HAP-HAP-HAPPY DAY. CongRATs on the decision to keep Sadie. It won't be easy I'm sure but I'm also sure you can handle it. You're a GREAT guy. Bless you and BB and Sadie. Happy New Year.
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Janie,
Ratty,Cameo,Cutter and Nala Belle's Mom
Show your furbaby how much you love them brush their teeth today! It saves them pain "tomorrow." Janie L. |
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PamWh
Rattitude Problem
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| 01/03/2008 10:47 AM |
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| Artie, are you sure? I hope we didn't make you feel bad or guilt you into keeping her. |
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PamWh
aka Bob's Mom
If your rattie ain't happy, ain't nobody happy! |
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Katie'sMom
Terrier Terror
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| 01/03/2008 10:51 AM |
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| I'm with PawWh, Artie. Please don't feel guilted into keeping Sadie. I know you must have been through a lot and I don't want you to take on more than you can handle. We all love ya - no matter what you decide. So long as Sadie is in a good home, it doesn't matter what home she is in -- right? So, don't feel pressured into keeping her -- or keep her out of love, if it is all too much for you. Do what you feel most comfortable doing and know you have all of our support in your decision. Hang in there, buddy! |
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Check out Katie Scarlett and Company, KS's new site (includes magazine):
Katie Scarlett and Company
And email her at:
katiescarlettorattie@gmail.com
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ARTIE
Rattie
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| 01/03/2008 12:06 PM |
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Swatson : No crate, Sadie likes a chair in the livingroom when BB and me go to bed, Sadie comes in and gives us a good night kiss and goes in the livingroom to sleep. Then at about 6:30 am she comes in the bedroom and wakes us up, we lay around till 7am then all get up to eat and pp. I have a little training to do and all will be ok. Sadie is a smart dog. Artie |
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PamWh
Rattitude Problem
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| 01/03/2008 12:10 PM |
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| I wish you, Sadie, and BB the best of luck. Let us know if you have any training questions or if you just want to vent when things get frustrating. I hope the girls will learn to love each other and to share your attention. |
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PamWh
aka Bob's Mom
If your rattie ain't happy, ain't nobody happy! |
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NIckle's Mom
Ratastic
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| 01/03/2008 12:21 PM |
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| Artie, just remember that if Sadie becomes to much or your at your wits end that I will still gladly take her. |
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"Minds are like parachutes - they only function when open" |
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swatson6
Attention Starved
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| 01/03/2008 12:24 PM |
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Posted By ARTIE on 01/03/2008 12:06 PM
Swatson : No crate, Sadie likes a chair in the livingroom when BB and me go to bed, Sadie comes in and gives us a good night kiss and goes in the livingroom to sleep. Then at about 6:30 am she comes in the bedroom and wakes us up, we lay around till 7am then all get up to eat and pp. I have a little training to do and all will be ok. Sadie is a smart dog. Artie
Well, it sounds like she is learning. Best of luck, and please stick around and keep us posted. You, BB and Sadie are part of our site now!!!! 
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Sarah
Mom to Jack, Jeter and foster mom to Teagan
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LadyLes
Terrier Terror
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| 01/03/2008 12:53 PM |
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| Oh wow, this story takes so many turns!! :o) Srtie...to reiterate what others have said, please post if you need help. There is always someone here that has dealt with similar situations. ((((HUGS)))) |
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There is nothing better than wine and chocolate!
~Ashley~ |
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vlrms3
Rattie
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| 01/03/2008 1:50 PM |
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Wait a minute Artie.......PLEASE...I have been through the ups and downs with you more than anyone and I know how stressed you have been since you got Sadie from me.
DO NOT KEEP SADIE OUT OF GUILT...YOU have done a great job.....It sounds like Patrica is more than happy to have Sadie and give her ANOTHER good home. I know you love Sadie...no one who knows her could not love her sweet nature but think long and hard about this before she loses this opportunity to go with Patricia......vickie |
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Morgan
Moderator
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| 01/03/2008 2:25 PM |
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| I know that everyone wants the best for Sadie and are trying their best to work things out, I just can't help but to feel bad for Sadie because of all the back and forth decisions to give her away and keep her. I think it's been back and forth 2 times now? I think what Sadie needs more than anything is consistency right now. I really think that dogs have a good sense for knowing what is going on... |
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-Morgan (Bella's Mommy) |
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Katie'sMom
Terrier Terror
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| 01/03/2008 2:43 PM |
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| Yes, Artie. Don't take on more than you can handle now. As I said before, Sadie will be happy whenever she gets settled into her new home - whether it's with Patricia or with you. Sounds like you have been through the wringer with the loss of your wife and caring for BB and now Sadie. Please make a decision that will work out best for YOU and Sadie. Thank goodness there are options! Sometimes that is not the case. No one feels harshly toward you no matter what you decide -- we all want to give you whatever support you may need. |
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Check out Katie Scarlett and Company, KS's new site (includes magazine):
Katie Scarlett and Company
And email her at:
katiescarlettorattie@gmail.com
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ARTIE
Rattie
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| 01/05/2008 9:28 AM |
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Sadie know longer needs a new home, she is home now. We had a talk and we all understand whet we expect of each other. They give me my space and I will give them there space and we all agreed. we all made a turn around and are doing good. You can learn a lot from dogs.
I will be around thank you all for your help. Love xo Artie |
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rattytatty
Newbie
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| 01/05/2008 9:36 AM |
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| Wow....this has been a really confusing situation.... |
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LadyLes
Terrier Terror
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| 01/05/2008 9:38 AM |
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| Artie, glad things are going well...stick around and keep us updated! |
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There is nothing better than wine and chocolate!
~Ashley~ |
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vlrms3
Rattie
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| 01/05/2008 11:25 PM |
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WOW..I am leaving in a few hours and will be out of the country for a few weeks. Not sure how much Internet access I will have but will check in if able.
Artie has assured me over the past 2 days that he is settled and fine with his decision to keep Sadie.
I have also corresponded with Patricia, and Artie knows she will be happy to take Sadie if he changes his mind. I am also sorry it has been so confusing. Hopefully, everyone is settled and will be happy.
I am so grateful for all the support you guys have given over the past few weeks. May you all have a wonderful 2008. All my best,
Vickie |
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NIckle's Mom
Ratastic
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| 01/05/2008 11:34 PM |
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Vickie,
Have a nice trip and stay safe, check in often with pictures please! |
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"Minds are like parachutes - they only function when open" |
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ARTIE
Rattie
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| 01/07/2008 12:03 PM |
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| I'm I the only one that has trouble uploading my Avatar? Every time I want to change the photo for the most part it takes 10 times to work. Artie |
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rattagan's mom
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
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| 01/07/2008 2:55 PM |
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| Hey Artie, nope hon I've been having the same trouble so now I just do it once or twice and after a while it just finally does it. It took it a couple of hours to finally change to the one I have now. |
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Janie,
Ratty,Cameo,Cutter and Nala Belle's Mom
Show your furbaby how much you love them brush their teeth today! It saves them pain "tomorrow." Janie L. |
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ARTIE
Rattie
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| 01/07/2008 4:05 PM |
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Ok , It fixed it self , this is a new photo of Sadie and BB they are getting along just fine.
Thanks for the help Artie |
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