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Noodles n Me


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
06/03/2008 6:15 PM  
Shouldn't this go in Rescue.
Hello Moderator.

There is no joy greater than being owned by a Rattie!!
cat
Smiles4life


Ratastic
Ratastic
06/03/2008 6:50 PM  

Mary Ellen,

You can email ratbonesos@yahoo.com and cc: RBRGAP@yahoo.com.  From your phone number I would say you are in Texas. 

Hope this helps.


Paula Nowak
Foster Mom, GA State Coordinator & More
Adoptables: www.imageevent.com/smiles4life/maywest
www.newrattitude.org, www.ratbonerescues.com
Torboar


Ratterific
Ratterific
07/22/2008 2:20 PM  
maryellen I am making a new post for you so they find a great home for the rattie xoxoxoxoxoxo Tori
Linuxdog


Rattie
Rattie
07/28/2008 12:20 AM  
I know this will probably get me flamed, but I'd be willing to board a rattie whilst looking for a new home for him/her here in Central Montana. What I won't do is to ask someone else's permission to do that, and that's the way I look at these "applications." I paid $100 to rescue our Pom-Poo from a puppy-mill, and also paid the same amount for our JackRat, although she wasn't a rescue. I'm not about to have someone doing a "home visit" and have someone traipsing through my house checking me out. I've had dogs around me since I was a little boy, and have always taken good care of them, and I don't need someone to "check me out" to see if I can do it right. I think that is downright insulting to a person who is willing to shoulder a "burden" that someone else is not willing to do. Just my 2cents

Helena, Montana - site of the Northernmost Monument to the Confederacy

Annie (Jackrat) and Lucy (Pompoo) two great dogs!
Linuxdog


Rattie
Rattie
07/28/2008 12:30 AM  

I forgot to say this .... I apologize if I've hurt anyone's feelings with the above post, because that wasn't my intention ..... I just feel that if you have a volunteer boarder or rescuer, you should be happy that there are folks out here that are willing to help, and not insult them by demanding an application or home visit, especially if they know what they are in for with a special needs animal like a rattie. It took many weeks of TLC just to get our Pom-poo to trust us not to beat her, and now she is one of the most loyal dogs I've ever owned. My advice, give your volunteer rescuers a break, not an inquisition


Helena, Montana - site of the Northernmost Monument to the Confederacy

Annie (Jackrat) and Lucy (Pompoo) two great dogs!
gwacie


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
07/28/2008 7:02 AM  
Good points Linuxdog and spoken like a true Montana resident too! What you may not realize is that, while you are great with dogs, not everyone is savvy. Some folks don't realize things that can harm dogs etc. so often the home visit is just a way to educate (hey, you have a big hole in your fenceline there buddy, this dog you want to adopt is a runner, can you fix that please before the dog arrives). Also we have had cases where animal horders in horrific conditions want animals when they can't even tend their own. Others claim to want to volunteer but then take the animals and run (sell them keep them who knows what).

When the person wants to help in rescue the purpose is to keep the animals safe. When they want to adopt the purpose is to help make sure the home will be a permanent one. We don't know you from Adam but we do know these dogs and want the best for them. How do we know you are the honest swell guy you claim to be? We don't.

However, that being said, as an honest, swell gal myself, I do know that having a home visit does seem like overkill. It's all a matter of perspective.

Thanks for adopting and saving that pom of yours.

gwacie (Bethany)
http://www.myadams.net/dogs/
Mitzy's Mom


Alpha Feist
Alpha Feist
07/28/2008 7:56 AM  

Used to feel the same way Linuxdog.  Then I started researching, reading and LISTENTING to rescue folks.  For the very reasons Gwacie just described - that's why home visits are done.  So guess what?  I went ahead  and volunteered as a foster for Ratbone and had a home visit.  It went well and we actually enjoyed it as it was another rat terrier lover doing it  - we had a long chat just about dogs. 

There ARE some people out there who will apply to adopt or who will volunteer to foster who have no business doing either.  So many rescues do the home visits.  If you are against it completely then perhaps you can find a rescue that does not require that in order to foster.


Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids

Georgia Foster Mom
www.ratbonerescues.com; www.newrattitude.org
Linuxdog


Rattie
Rattie
07/28/2008 12:17 PM  
Nah, I just won't join up with anything that requires such things .... I will just do it on my own and let folks know that the animal is available .... then folks that want to get into someone else's life can do their thing and I'll stay out of it .... I don't mind taking care of the animal and protecting it from harm/starvation/etc, but I'm not about to play "doggie policeman" and try to pre-judge other's character and motives. I'm a very private person, and I don't get into anyone else's business or intrude on their privacy. That's just my way of looking at it, I'm not trying to criticize ratbones or any other such group; from what I see, they're doing a good service to helpless animals, I just wouldn't get involved if that were their rules. If I rescue any ratties/JackRats around here, I'll let the forum know about it .

Helena, Montana - site of the Northernmost Monument to the Confederacy

Annie (Jackrat) and Lucy (Pompoo) two great dogs!
Mitzy's Mom


Alpha Feist
Alpha Feist
07/28/2008 1:05 PM  

Sounds good to me!  Any way a rattie can be saved is a good way.


Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids

Georgia Foster Mom
www.ratbonerescues.com; www.newrattitude.org
SuzieRedhead


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
07/28/2008 1:51 PM  

In my opinion, for what that's worth... if someone isn't willing to have a home visit, they have something to hide, and that's not a place I'd want one of my dogs to go....


Sue Carello, Scotia, NY (near Albany)
Ratbone Rescues Fostermom, Northeast State Coordinator and Applications Coordinator and Fundraising Co-Chair
www.ratbonerescues.com

Who do YOU GoodSearch/GoodShop for? Click on the icon below and type in RATBONE RESCUES!


GoodSearch: You Search...We Give!
Linuxdog


Rattie
Rattie
07/29/2008 2:13 AM  
Posted By SuzieRedhead on 07/28/2008 1:51 PM

In my opinion, for what that's worth... if someone isn't willing to have a home visit, they have something to hide, and that's not a place I'd want one of my dogs to go....

 

It's exactly that kind of accusatory (is that a word?) characterization (that statement was almost slanderous!!) that convinces me NOT to join a group of some kind .... some of us value our privacy, but that doesn't mean we're hiding anything -- whether you value your privacy, or not, is up to you. I obviously wouldn't be asking your group for permission to house animals in my home. Your kind of attitude is pre-judging an individual without knowing anything about them ...... I'm sorry you feel that way. 

Also, I don't need someone to tell me how to take care of my animals, I've taken in enough strays over the years to know how to handle them, and love and care for them - so from my point of view, I have no need for home visits or any other kind of visits .....

 

If I have any questions about caring for my animals, I'll be asking those questions on a suitable forum - here for ratties, JackRats etc. , a different forum for my wife's PomPoo

 


Helena, Montana - site of the Northernmost Monument to the Confederacy

Annie (Jackrat) and Lucy (Pompoo) two great dogs!
SuzieRedhead


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
07/29/2008 11:58 AM  

Not accusing you of anything, I don't even know you.  I'm just voicing my opinion, which I am entitled to, as you are of yours.  But I stand by what I said.  No way would I allow one of my fosters go to a home that wouldn't allow a home visit. 


Sue Carello, Scotia, NY (near Albany)
Ratbone Rescues Fostermom, Northeast State Coordinator and Applications Coordinator and Fundraising Co-Chair
www.ratbonerescues.com

Who do YOU GoodSearch/GoodShop for? Click on the icon below and type in RATBONE RESCUES!


GoodSearch: You Search...We Give!
alice4512


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
07/29/2008 12:54 PM  

Ya know the other thing is by not doing a home visit you have NO IDEA where these dogs are going,. What if  you are a research lab or hoarder or dog fighter. Anyone can say "I have a great home and this and that" but maybe you really want rat terriers as bait dogs cheap. Who knows. I work with rescue and not only do we require a home visit but we do random follow ups as well. These dogs have been through enough to place them in bad situations. Maybe that is not yours but you can't trust someone's word these days, there are to many shady people out there.

I just read this about adoption and it's very true:  if potential owners have a bad attitude about the process it's a red flad they don't consider the dog's welfae important enought to jump though hoops. Theyr' not going to put a lot of effort into the dog right from the beginning. My rescue's I would have jumped through fire hoops if that's what it would have taken. Just something to think about.

This is not meant against you in any way but there is a method to the madness behind it. Patience is a virtue.


The great pleasure of a dog is that you may make a fool of yourself with him and not only will he not scold you, but he will make a fool of himself too

~Mom to my good boy Fred and my crazy girl Alice~
RatsRule!


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/29/2008 1:02 PM  
Having been a person who recently adopted a sweet and wonderful girl from Ratbone Rescues, I for one must say, I 'm SOOOO happy that Ratbones requires home visits, not only of their foster parents, but of the potential adopters too! To me this is a VERY important part of the adoption process and should be required for anyone wanting to buy or adopt a pet of any kind everywhere!! I value my privacy just as much as the next person, but I was more than happy to put that aside to SHOW (not tell) someone what kind of environment this wonderful dog was going to be living in.

Nobody told me how to take care of this dog, or how to love her, that's NOT the purpose of a home visit. It's purpose as mentioned by another RT member, is to SEE that the animal is being placed in a SAFE environment!! It is not to dictate anything, or to violate anyone's privacy. I'm sorry, but you just can't ignore that there are too many nasty, cruel and sick people in this world, and without home visits, how would an organization such as Ratbones have any way of verifying that they aren't giving their dogs to one of those kinds of people? Granted, a home visit won't reveal everything about a person's charcater, but in combination with the interviews, applications and reference checks, they do an awesome job of doing their best to place these wonderful dogs with truly wonderful families - who don't find a home visit intrusive in the least. JMO!!

~~ Life is awesome when you share it with a couple of Ratties! ~~
Terri, proud mom of Chloe & Bonnie!
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Ratbone Rescues Application Coordinator
Mitzy's Mom


Alpha Feist
Alpha Feist
07/29/2008 1:41 PM  
We (Ratbones) had an application on Morgandy at one point. Applicant refused to communicate online, only by phone. That's ok. BUT she also didn't want to "jump thru hoops" with a home visit....her daughter had moved back and there were boxes around, etc. In the end she finally admitted she had an agressive lab and was afraid the dog would attack the volunteer doing the home visit! Not only was this dangerous for any volunteers going there it was a big red flag that she wasn't a good pack leader (the lab was very young and labs aren't known for agression so this was very weird) and also that maybe Morgandy would be in danger from the lab. So...the applicant withdrew her application, said she just wanted to "buy a dog the same day"....which was just as well because we weren't getting a good feeling from her!

Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids

Georgia Foster Mom
www.ratbonerescues.com; www.newrattitude.org
RatsRule!


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/29/2008 1:51 PM  
Home visits are important!! : )

~~ Life is awesome when you share it with a couple of Ratties! ~~
Terri, proud mom of Chloe & Bonnie!
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Ratbone Rescues Application Coordinator
Noodles n Me


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
07/29/2008 2:09 PM  
Linuxdog,
I understand what you are saying. My life is an open book, however i live in a fallen down pig sty. Most of my time is spent on loving and teaching my furkids, and picking up after them. I feel like if I was to apply for a kid adoption I would be turnned down because of the way my home is. So why should it be any less for foster/adoption of another animal. However part of the reason my home is so run down and i don't have enough time is because I have taken in so many strays and taken good, no GREAT, care of then.
On the other hand if someone came to do a home visit in my home and got past the fact that there is kitty litter in all kinds of cornners of my house (24 year old cat makes her own litter boxes), dog blankets thrown all over, bird seeds and feathers along with pet hair on the floor (sweep every day can't keep up), they would see I mean well but am just this side of a horder.
Not saying this is anywhere near your senario, just saying this is among the reasons a home visit to potential foster/adoptive parents is a must.
Keep helping out any way you can & are comfortable doing, because in the long run HAPPY HEALTHY Homes with loving careing familes is the goal for us all. THANKS for what you do!!!

There is no joy greater than being owned by a Rattie!!
cat
Kasey's Mom


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
07/29/2008 2:40 PM  

I just wanted to add something.....

when i applied for Kasey...... it took forever to find someone to do a homevisit....   it was over a month...  since i applied,  I was starting to look around for other ratties that were closer to home and go from there.....   I passed my reference check, application check and everything else.... all i needed was a home visit....   that was the only thing that was holding us back....  

But my husband and i decided to wait longer....   and for that time being, waiting for so long and we finally used the last resource to have someone to do a home visit because there were nobody close to my area to do it....   and i picked the person who i know was most honest and blunt about things....   just to assure them that there was nothing to hide. 

Oh yeah, i was getting frusturated.  because that was a long time.  So i talked to one of the people about the home visit, and she explained one of her experiences with me.  When she went to do a home visit.... the whole family was suppose to be there and to make sure everyone was agreeable to adopt the dog....  well, when she went there, it was just the mom and kids... and then her husband came home.... her husband was not in any agreement to adopt the dog and they were arguing!  So when something like that happens it's better that it happens before they adopted the dog, because who knows what would've happened to that pup if they did!  especially with the husband being mad and angry like that! 

So you just never know....  it's better to be safe than sorry.  even my husband felt "why would we need a home visit?" but that was of course before we learned about the mean ppl out there that were not so nice to animals....  

So now that i foster,  i feel better with home visits along with all the process of adopting the dog.  and i treat these fosters as if they were mine.... and i want them to go to a good home where they can be spoiled and be loved too. 


Mardi
Momma to Kasey and Indy

~~Dance like nobody's watching~~
SuzieRedhead


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
07/29/2008 3:42 PM  

To give a dog to someone without doing a reference check(s), vet check(s) and home visit(s)  is like giving your kid to a daycare without doing research....  just dropping 'em off and not looking back...

I want to make sure my babies are going to save and loving homes.  Like someone said, words are cheap... I want to see for myself.  If anybody finds that offensive or intrusive, they don't need one of my dogs.  Plain and simple!


Sue Carello, Scotia, NY (near Albany)
Ratbone Rescues Fostermom, Northeast State Coordinator and Applications Coordinator and Fundraising Co-Chair
www.ratbonerescues.com

Who do YOU GoodSearch/GoodShop for? Click on the icon below and type in RATBONE RESCUES!


GoodSearch: You Search...We Give!
ivy


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
07/29/2008 3:54 PM  

AMEN!

singingpilgrim


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/29/2008 6:07 PM  
I know I wouldn't pass a home visit. Our house is a mess. My mom is OCD, and not OCD clean. It's not a well advertised part of OCD, but there are people who are obsessively messy as well as obsessively clean. Additionally, my dad works all the time and has arthritis and is still recovering from being hit head on by a drunk driver in the fall. He's too tired to clean much. And my mom has fibromyalgea and bad knees. Not only does the mess accumulate because of her OCD issues, but they aren't physically fit enough to keep it from escalating. I try, but I'm only one person. I have made a difference since I came home, but it's just an indent in a large problem.

Still we never have had the mess be a danger to our animals. We've never had an animal who has been harmed by it in anyway.

But people are more discriminating than animals, so when I was looking for a dog I knew I couldn't get one from a rescue and ended up going to the shelter, and getting Sophia.

Now, this isn't my house. It's my parent's. And try and try as I might I can't get it to be clean. In a week or so it just reverts back to its messy state. So while I've not really given up, I also know that probably I'd have to wait to get my own place before I'd ever be able to adopt from a rescue.

Truth be told though, while I do think it's excessive in my case, I also think it's worth it to save dogs from the research labs, dog fighters and animal hoarders. If I was a foster mom, I'd require a home visit as well. Does it seem hypocritical? Maybe. But I know that the few good homes that would be passed over, like mine, because of requiring home visits would be a worthy sacrifice for the animals you'd save from bad homes.

Also, as a person who lives in this kind of mess, you just know you can't do a home visit. It sucks, but it is was it is. My mom has a problem. It's as real as other disability. And unfortunately, when something is different about you in our society, you sacrifice some of the things "normal" people take for granted. Like being able to have people over. (And that's kind of required for a home visit)

Pamela
~Sophia Abigail's Mom~
Linuxdog


Rattie
Rattie
07/29/2008 11:08 PM  
Well, I won't belabor the point any longer, I think that some here just take it too far, and as Suzieredhead said, that's my opinion. I'd be more in agreement with Singingpilgrim and Noodles n Me when it comes right down to it. I'll never ask a rescue for a dog, nor will I ask to be one of their rescuers .... I suppose where some of you live, there are "hoarders" and "labs" and "dogfighters" but you can't be the policeman of the world, as far as I'm concerned.
To give a dog to someone without doing a reference check(s), vet check(s) and home visit(s) is like giving your kid to a daycare without doing research.... just dropping 'em off and not looking back...
For me, that's a poor analogy ... my kids were never in daycare .... we always took responsibility for our children, never farmed them out to relatives or daycares ... we even homeschooled them.

You might also look at it this way ..... some of the dogs you are fostering were in homes that bought at pet stores or from private parties ---- I wonder how many of those people were turned down or turned off by the "rescuers" and their "home visits and reference checks" etc. If there were any, the "rescuers" in essence forced them to seek another avenue, rather than to prevent someone from having an animal who shouldn't have had one in the first place Like I said, you can't be the policeman of the world, and if someone really wants a dog, they'll circumvent your rules and get one anyway, but then, of course, you will feel better because it wasn't one of "yours." (but it might become yours in the near future )


I think that some people just want to invent a lot of reasons to make themselves feel better, but that, again, is up to them. I would try to "read" a person's character when they come to see the dog, rather than do a home visit, not do background checks, financial checks, or anything of the sort, but that's just me. I don't think we need to continue this confab any more, some of you fail to see my point, and I'm not going to be swayed by yours. So, I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree TTFN

Helena, Montana - site of the Northernmost Monument to the Confederacy

Annie (Jackrat) and Lucy (Pompoo) two great dogs!
gwacie


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
07/30/2008 8:15 AM  
LOL that's why I said "spoken like a true Montana resident" Linuxdog! Come live around Detroit with me and let me show you the sites my friend. It's a different world than where you come from! Both sides of this argument have valid points. I just want to thank those involved for ALL their work with rescue whether as an individual or through some organized group. To me, the key thing is that animals in need find help, regardless of the path taken to achieve this (formal or not).

gwacie (Bethany)
http://www.myadams.net/dogs/
vamia


Newbie
Newbie
08/23/2008 9:39 AM  
Hello, I have never had the need to write in this site eventhough I've been a member for a while. The problem that I am having is with my very first baby his name is PeeWee, he is a gorgeous RT and very demanding with the attention. I have a second dog (PeeWee's daughter - her name is Dutchess). PeeWee was borned on June 21st 2003 and Dutchess on November 4th 2004, PeeWee is pure breed (no papers) but Dutchess is mix Rat but not sure what the other breed would be. The problem is that PeeWee has become very aggressive, he has bitten my son when he tried to pet him and myself a couple of times, this is been happening when my son's girlfriend gave him a dashhound puppy as a present, his name is Baby Ace. I know RT are very possessive and territorial, PeeWee has not been neuter/spade (forgot which is the one is used for the male) but Dutchess is, the other dog is not either. I am seriously thinking of giving PeeWee up since I believe he doesn't care for me as his owner since he has bitten me, I can't understand him, I have not lacked the attention to him at all, at the contrary I assure him by spending more time with him alone that the other dogs. Dutchess is so sweet, she just takes what you give her. The other dog, I hardly spend the time with.
Can someone please give some advise, I have cried so much this morning since this last episode with PeeWee, it hurts my feelings that he bites me, I have nursed him and loved him so much for him do this betrayal...(I know you might say he is a dog, he doesn't know, but he is very smart, he knows what he did I see it in his eyes) to me he is MY BABY. PLEASE HELP!
Mitzy's Mom


Alpha Feist
Alpha Feist
08/23/2008 11:38 AM  
I suggest you start a new thread under the Training Forum if you want advice in training or under Rescue if you are determined to give up your dog...or ask a moderator move this post to it's own thread.

First and foremost....why was your rat terrier never neutered? That should have been done when he was a pup since you didn't intend to be a breeder (guess that as he has no papers and you allowed him to breed a non-rat terrier?). All those hormones can feed agression. It's not too late though and neutering him would be my first step now. Then some real training for the little guy. I would also spay his daughter....you don't really want him mating with her...do you?

Sounds like maybe he being territorial with the new puppy coming into the house. This can fixed with training (and neutering) - I would hope you would be open to training advice before giving up your dog you've had for 4 years!

Please- give him a chance and repost your problem over in the Training Forum. We have an excellent training moderator who can give you some advice.

Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids

Georgia Foster Mom
www.ratbonerescues.com; www.newrattitude.org
vamia


Newbie
Newbie
08/23/2008 12:24 PM  

Thank you for your advise.  I was planning to breed him, but never found any one close by with a RT again.  His daughter is fixed.  The other puppy isn't and yes I do agree...I should have done that for him sooner. 

Please advise how I can contact a moderator to move my problem...believe me I do not want to give him up...I LOVE HIM, I am just hurt by his attitude towards me.  I always thought that they are supposed to be loyal to their owner.

I will to start fix him as soon as possible, then I will monitor him and see what happens.

Thanks again..

 

vccarmi


Ratastic
Ratastic
08/23/2008 3:17 PM  

"I understand what you are saying. My life is an open book, however i live in a fallen down pig sty"

Actually as a person who has done home visits for Ratbone, my bigfest placement disappointment was with a family that was TOO clean. I saw red flags but thought these are adults and they know dogs can make a mess. I had to take my shoes off outside their home, put on some little slipper things, and then do the same thing for the backyard. Everything was white and antiseptic. A week into dog ownership they returned her. One complaint was that her feet got dirty when she goes outside for potty. I would much rather see a dog go to a "real" home than a showplace where they might not fit in.

I understand the resistance to home visits but having been involved with rescue for 4 years I think it is worth the risk of alienating a few people. Those people who are experienced and good with dogs such as the fellow on this thread who doesn't feel anyone needs to do the visit might see the benefits, even if those don't agree, if they had more information. Remember, these rescue groups are not only trying to weed out people who are unfit but they are also trying to match up the right dog with the right people and living situaiton so that adoptions are lifelong. People can get emotional seeing a dog on a web site that tugs at their heart strings when, in fact, that dog may not be suited for their lifestyle or home.

That's the beauty of human - we all see things from our own perspective.

Vickie 

 


Vickie
Check out my Daisey's block on the Ratbone Raffle Quilt!
Mitzy's Mom


Alpha Feist
Alpha Feist
08/23/2008 4:50 PM  
Varnia - I copied and moved your post to Training Forum. It's subject line is "Help for Varnia".

Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids

Georgia Foster Mom
www.ratbonerescues.com; www.newrattitude.org
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