The normal behaviors of children often present problems for dogs, and vice versa. Children move with quick, jerky movements, have high-pitched voices, and they often run rather than walk. All of these behaviors somewhat resemble the behavior of animals that wild canids (the dog's ancestors) prey upon. Almost all play behaviors in the dog are based on predatory behavior. Consequently dogs often react to these behaviors by chasing the children, nipping at their heels, jumping up at them, even trying to chase them down. While all the behaviors described are normal play behaviors for both kids and dogs, they can result in problems.
Both your children and your dog will need lots of help and supervision from you so they can learn how to behave around one another. An approach that is not helpful is to do nothing but punish the dog for his behavior. If he learns that being around children always results in "bad things" happening to him, he may become defensive in their presence. At first children may need to play quietly around the dog until he becomes more comfortable and calm and the children have gained control over the dog. The dog must also learn that certain behaviors on his part are unacceptable, but he must also be taught what behaviors are the right ones. An obedience class may be helpful.
Children often want to hug the dog around the neck. The dog may view this as a threatening gesture rather than an affectionate one. In reaction, a dog may growl, snap or bite. To reduce such risks, a child should pet the dog from underneath his chin rather than hugging him or reaching over his head, should not stare at or look him directly in the eye, and should turn the side of her body toward the dog rather than facing him.
Dogs can be possessive about their food, toys, and space. Although it is normal for a dog to growl or snap to protect these items, it is NEVER acceptable. At the same time, children need to learn to respect their dog as a living creature who is not to be teased or purposefully hurt, and who needs time to himself. He is not a play-thing that should always be available to them. If a dog is growling or snapping at children for any reason, the situation needs IMMEDIATE: attention. Just punishing the dog is likely to make matters worse.
Your first responsibility of course is to your children. But you also have a responsibility to protect your dog from your children. Crating your dog and not allowing unsupervised interaction between them might be a good thing. Keep a squirt bottle of water handy also. If the dog is displaying inappropriate behavior... squirt him with it, and give an affirmative "NO" ... when you get the dog's attention, reward him for backing off. |