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Cocoabean

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| 05/09/2008 9:57 PM |
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Last Thanksgiving we had my brother-in-law over, and Henry absolutely hated him. It was horrible, and I've never seen a dog react so negatively to a person before in my life. Anyway, I haven't had any guests come to our house since then, and I'm not positive if it was true territorial aggression or just a severe negative reaction to my brother-in-law, who is very large (over 300 lbs) and has Asperger's syndrome. I know that dogs can sometimes be sensitive to humans who are different in some way. Anyway, on Memorial Day weekend, I have a friend coming to visit for a few days. Do any of you have any suggestions for introducing her to Henry? I have asked her to wear a t-shirt and then mail it to me ahead of time so that I can let him smell her scent with some positive reinforcement beforehand. As silly as it sounds, I was thinking of also letting her out of the car at the end of our street and bringing Henry to meet her on neutral territory and us all walking to the house together. She doesn't have any pets, which is both good and bad. Good because no scent, bad because she isn't used to dogs and how to act around them. Man, I just don't want a whole weekend like the one we had over Thanksgiving. We had to keep Henry locked in our bedroom the whole time except to let him out, and he even went nuts when he heard my brother-in-laws voice through the walls. My nerves have never been so frayed. (I actually spent a lot of time in the bedroom, too, and let my husband entertain his brother by himself...wouln't you??? ) |
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gwacie

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| 05/09/2008 10:02 PM |
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| Food....like chicken or other really high 'value' treat - have her feed him. Start by tossing small treats to him before he has a chance to realize he is upset. Then have her do it too. |
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Noodles n Me

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| 05/09/2008 10:11 PM |
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| I think the T-shirt and neutral territory ideas ar great. I would also suggest that at the meet you have your frind get down on Henry's level and allow him to go to her. Then she can treat him. Sounds like a good start. GOOD LUCK and Please let us know how it goes. |
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winnihoohoo

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| 05/09/2008 10:22 PM |
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| Tell her to bring presents..yummy treats, and a toy... |
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rattytatty

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| 05/09/2008 10:32 PM |
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| Personally.... I would leave Henry crated until your guest is in the house and settled in. Have her sit on the couch (sitting is much less intimidating to a dog than standing is) with some treats. I would have your guest ignore Henry and let Henry make the moves. She can have the treats ready... when Henry comes over to sniff her, have her hold her hand out (palm up always) with a treat in it and let Henry take it from her. You'll be able to tell by Henry's body language how things are going to go. The key is for your guest NOT to initiate anything with Henry. Allow Henry to do the initiating. |
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 ~Nora~ Mom to Hoss, Lil'Bit, Buster & Bailey, CGC, NA, NAJ |
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k_dmom33

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| 05/09/2008 11:44 PM |
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| What Nora says works. I had a problem with my little dog Jack and having kids over to the house. He would bark like crazy and I was afraid he was going to bite someone. I did what Nora said and put him away BEFORE any kids came into my house. Then I instructed the child on how to react with him. I had them give him treats on his level (with leash on first of course. ). I didnt let them talk or play with him until he stopped barking. Then they could give him a treat and a pet. He is much improved, tho sometimes with someone new we have to reinforce. But I have a child here in my house tonight and Jack barked at her a few times and I stood tall in front of him and said NO. He stopped and has been fine all night. Good luck. |
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Cocoabean

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| 05/10/2008 3:09 PM |
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Thank you, thank you, thank you! I appreciate all of your great suggestions. I had not even thought of crating--great idea. (I hardly ever crate Henry any more because I'm home most of the time now that I work from home.) Now, of course, I'm wishing I had sought the help of a trainer after last Thanksgiving. I will be sure to post after my friend's visit and let y'all know how it went. |
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rattytatty

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| 05/11/2008 8:15 AM |
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Sara Jo... do not get out of the habit of crating Henry occasionally. I realize because you are home most of the time, it's easy to not crate him. But there WILL be times when crating is necessary ... and you'll want him to be comfortable with it and not feel as though he's being punished. Good luck with this and let us know how it goes! |
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 ~Nora~ Mom to Hoss, Lil'Bit, Buster & Bailey, CGC, NA, NAJ |
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Cocoabean

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| 05/11/2008 4:43 PM |
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Posted By rattytatty on 05/11/2008 8:15 AM
Sara Jo... do not get out of the habit of crating Henry occasionally. I realize because you are home most of the time, it's easy to not crate him. But there WILL be times when crating is necessary ... and you'll want him to be comfortable with it and not feel as though he's being punished.
Good luck with this and let us know how it goes!
You're absolutely right. I have been crating him to get him used to his crate again since I read the responses to this post. Thank you so much for suggesting the crate, too. I do have his crate in my office at home, and he goes in there by himself, but I hadn't closed him up in there in a long time until today. He did pretty good with a Greenie, but I didn't keep him in there too long. Tomorrow when I'm working, he'll go in there for a little longer, with a treat, of course! The crate is now his special place to get a treat.
I will let you know how it goes 
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