Ok. my husband's daughter is past due on her baby so they are giving her a shot tonight so she could go into labor tommorrow and he wants me to be the grandma too. But see i am only 18 and dont have children of my own, if she was my daughter i would tell her that she got pregnant so she takes care of him not the other way around anyways, my puppy buddy has to be locked up at all time bcuz the baby will be over at our house 24/7 but i just feel like they should give him a chance with the new born but he isnt my child so i cant say anything to her. All i said is that i dont really feel you are giving him a chance with him and yo should if the puppy would hurt someone he would of done something by then. We had a 5 month old come in the house and he was so friendly so would should i do?

wow honey....first the baby is overdue...what kind of shot do they give to induce labor..I have never heard of a shot??? and I still do not understand your situation and why any 18 year old would marry a 36 year old...I wouldn't and I am in the age group!! he must be something good or you are having a hard time understanding yourself and your growth as a woman..and to be a mom of someone almost your own age can't be easy..but you picked this life and now it is up to you to make a stand in what you want or just give up and back down...you have got me worried and wanting to understand..but I can't ...I am so sorry....Milly

Amber, I am really concerned about you emotionally. As a Mom, I would be very concerned if my daughter who was 18 had hooked up or married a 36 year old man. Now all we have to base our opinion on here is what you have written in previous emails about your situation. First, are you happy in this marriage?? If so, then you need to buck up and be responsible and have a heart to heart with your husband and explain that it is not good to keep a puppy locked up in one room, a bedroom a laundry room or a crate constantly. This puppy is also a baby and needs interaction.

If you are unhappy and want to get out of this situation, do you have a job? Where is your family?? Do you have a friend you go stay with?? Something, anything....sounds like it would be better than this situation you find yourself in now.

I don't mean this to be ugly or rude in any way shape or form.....but something has to give. If you cannot be a Mom to this pup....who has already had so many issues with his surgery etc.....and your husband spending the vet money, etc.....please get him a good home and put your life in order.

Just remember that when you marry someone.....you marry them, their kids, their baggage....the whole kit and kaboodle.....this just may be more than you bargained for being 18. Just know that his daughter and her kid won't be going anywhere.....so you will be stuck with them too.......

I sure wish you alot of luck and would hope this would spur you to make some changes in your life.

God bless,
Lynn