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amiller

Ratterific

01/24/2008 7:09 PM
Chloe is afraid of men she even growled at a couple of my clients at work today what can I do to help her? I ask my vet and she said she may be trying to protect me and that I need to show her that I am the Alpha and that I will protect her but I didn't think to ask her how I do that. Do you guys have any ideas? Amanda

Dogs have given us their absolute all. We are the center of ther universe. We are the focus of their love and faith and trust. They serve us in return for scraps. It is without a doubt the best deal man has ever made." - Roger Caras

DaisysMom

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01/24/2008 7:47 PM
One: Give her some time. Make sure you don't try and coddle or comfort her when she seems uncomfortable - this will only reinforce her uneasy state of mind and indicate to her that there is something to worry about. Is she on a leash near you while you're working? If and when she starts to do this I would snap my fingers to get her attention and give her a "SHH" or "No" - calmly, sternly, but not loud or mean. Just use a matter-of-fact, we don't act that way attitude. If she focus on you, stops growling and relaxes, I would tell her, "good. quiet" and give her a little training treat. This will help her learn what displeases you and what pleases you. As far as Alphaness...some of that will come with time. You control the food which is the main indication of whose "boss". Walks will help, too.

Tracey - Darlin' Daisy's Mom

amiller

Ratterific

01/24/2008 8:03 PM
So far she has normally my shadow at work So that would be a good way to help her get over her fear. I also thought about haveing the 2 guys that work at the computer repair place next do to talk to her in a soft voice and maybe give her treats. I am sure they will do it. They are really nice and like dogs. Amanda

Dogs have given us their absolute all. We are the center of ther universe. We are the focus of their love and faith and trust. They serve us in return for scraps. It is without a doubt the best deal man has ever made." - Roger Caras

DaisysMom

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01/24/2008 8:12 PM
It would help if you could have a calm dog knowledgeable guy maybe come in and just sit for a few minutes (he can have a treat) but I would have him generally ignore her and just chat with you and give her time to come to him. If and when she appears to be gaining some comfort, then he could casually drop a treat for her on the floor. Work up to him having her take the treat from him. Little steps....

Tracey - Darlin' Daisy's Mom

tauney4

Pack Leader

01/24/2008 8:32 PM
sounds like you got some great advice!!!!!

amiller

Ratterific

01/24/2008 8:40 PM
Gotcha let her come to him. Little steps and lots of patience. I can do that. Amanda

Dogs have given us their absolute all. We are the center of ther universe. We are the focus of their love and faith and trust. They serve us in return for scraps. It is without a doubt the best deal man has ever made." - Roger Caras

tishmeg_2006

Rattie

01/25/2008 5:19 AM
My little Milo is having a very similar experience. It's really hard because he's even scared of my fiance. It's slow coming, but he's coming around. It sounds like you have some excellent advice. Good luck! Keep us posted.

swedishfish5

Ratastic

01/25/2008 6:36 AM
I have the same problem with Macie.. and it's only certain men, its very odd

Mommy to KAMI and MACIE

amiller

Ratterific

01/25/2008 8:39 PM
Its only certain men that shes afraid of. Today I took her to met her grandparents and she was not at all afraid of my dad she snuggled right up to him on the couch. Oh and by the way they loved her and thought she was beautiful. Amanda

Dogs have given us their absolute all. We are the center of ther universe. We are the focus of their love and faith and trust. They serve us in return for scraps. It is without a doubt the best deal man has ever made." - Roger Caras

milly

Terrier Terror

01/25/2008 9:10 PM
do the men make you a little uncomfortable???? she could be reacting you and your nervousness or what not....all of my rescue have always hated my other half....murry is getting better but not when jav is awake they sleep togther and snuggle like crazy.....murry doesnt even come close to me at night.....but all of my dogs have been abused mostly by men....if not correct her right away even in her thought process....and then get what you need done and if she submits treat her....dont give her possitive attn when she is doing what you dont want her to do....milly

Milly.....Owned by Murry!!!

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