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kimrose

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| 11/05/2007 11:42 AM |
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Well, I think we have decided to finally do it... nothing for sure yet, but me and Kevin are thinking of getting Mic a professional trainer. We can afford it now (barely) so we think its time. Plus, this weekend was a bad bad weekend for the Micster. He was not a very good boy I think he purposely slept all day so he could keep us up all night barking... and then when Kevin decided to get up to tell him to stop barking... Mic bit him He hasn't done this since he was a baby!! I think maybe Mic was just startled and it was dark... I don't know. He's my beebs, he doesn't do any wrong! 
Anyway, I am curious about all of your thoughts on a trainer. We were thinking of the kind of training like a boot camp, where they take him away .... this was actually Kevin's idea since we are going back home for xmas, it would work out the best and we wouldn't have to find him boarding. Plus, Kevin is really angry right now. He won't even play with Mic He's starting to warm up to him again, but its slow going.
Also, if anyone has any recommendations on a trainer or boot camp type thingie in San Diego, I'd appreciate it!!
So this isn't set in stone yet, we're just in the "talking" phase of getting a trainer. Plus we're torn on do we have a trainer come to our house (which is probably better for training reasons) or send him away (which is better on our wallets for xmas) |
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rattytatty

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| 11/05/2007 11:54 AM |
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| Kim -- NOOOO !!! Please don't send him away to boot camp! PM me with your phone # and I'll give you a call so we can discuss.. please.... |
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Mitzy's Mom

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| 11/05/2007 12:04 PM |
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| Oh gosh, my dogs can be total rogues but I wouldn't send them off to boot camp...if I could afford it I'd have a trainer or behaviourist come to my house to work with them. JMO |
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rattytatty

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| 11/05/2007 12:05 PM |
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These dogs don't do well in that environment.... Kim... pm me your phone #. |
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kimrose

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| 11/05/2007 12:14 PM |
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See, I would rather have a trainer come to my house, or I go there, I just want to be there and learn ya know? But Kevin's thinking on it is boarding is about $350.00 when we go home for xmas, so why not get it done at the same time.... blah blah blah.
I don't have any argument though, I just know its not as good to send your dog to "boot camp" because you the human aren't learning anything... So why else is it so bad to send them away? Just gathering opinions here...
This was the place I was looking at, but they might be to much $$. I actually spoke with the trainer here for about an hour, she was very nice. http://www.westcoastk9.com/
This is where Kevin looked for "boot camp"... http://betterdogtrainer.com/ I guess he spoke with them too, and they say they will take your dog for as long as they need to, and then when they think he's ready, they send him home, and do as many follow-ups with you in your home as you need to learn how to keep up with his training. |
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rattytatty

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| 11/05/2007 12:32 PM |
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Ok... my honest opinion here.... (don't everyone beat me up over this please). If you don't have time to learn how to train your dog, you don't have time for a dog. I feel SO strongly about this! The personalities of the owner and the dog HAVE to come into play. It depends on what's effective and what the owner is comfortable with. I can put a pinch/prong collar on any dog, but if I know the owner is going to take it off the minute he's out the door, that's not going to work. Any dog can be taught, but it's the OWNER who must be trained in order for any training to be effective and long-lasting. Without the owner's willing participation, NO dog trainer can promise a dog will behave at home. The best he/she can guarantee is that the dog will respond to THEM. Training opens up a line of communication between you and your dog, and will create a stronger bond between the two of you. Is it more expensive? Yes.... Is it worth it? ABSOLUTELY!! |
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kimrose

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| 11/05/2007 12:47 PM |
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Nora, both me and Kevin already completley agree with what you said, which is why we are looking into a trainer. We've both realized now that all the books we've read, research we've done, methods we've used... obviously we're doing it wrong! And we both know that the only way to properly train Mic is by training us... Mic is a dog. It's us that needs the training. We know this, so while I'm against the idea of boot camp, I have to let Kevin have his opinion, but he is making sure that any boot camp he looks at they offer in home training as well. He's just thinking of saving a couple hundred $$ during xmas since we have to board him anyway. |
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swatson6

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| 11/05/2007 1:31 PM |
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| I would have to agree with Nora on this one. You would be taking Mic out of his normal environment and asking him to act like he always does so the trainer can "train" him. Jack would be scared to death. I also wouldn't learn anything at all from it. I want to see what is done, how it is done and how my dog responds. I also feel that the trainer does not get to see the dog act in his own environment and their true personality, therefore cannot assess the dog properly. I don't know, I just think it is too much stress for ratties. They are so sensitive. And unless we as owners learn how to handle the issues personally, not just by being told once, the dog is just going to revert back again. |
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Paul

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| 11/05/2007 1:40 PM |
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There are several places in Indpls that offer this kind of training---ususlly for bigger dogs and for "security training"----personally, I would rather board my dog just to let him relax and be boarded and NOT have someone train him while I wasnt there. I'm sure that some of these places have high ratings and reviews, but in MY opinion, I would want to be part of the training procedure and not have my dog perform like a professional for some professional trainer, but still be my same old unruly dog when he was away from that person and that environment. But that's just me. I took Darmok to 4 different training schools or classes---puppy classes (more socialization than anything else), basic obedience, advanced obedience, and basic agility and it was ME that learned way more than she did. That's the way I wanted it to be. |
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BonitaKaz

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| 11/05/2007 1:48 PM |
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I also agree that boot camp is not the best way to go. Training can be a way for Mic to bond with ya'll, and he'll have enough problems being in a strange place with strange people who are NOT his family than to have the added stress of a "boot camp" You guys would be getting something worth your money by taking him to a group training class or have a one-on-one trainer. I'm afraid that 1. this would just be a huge stress to Mic 2. He may revert back to his old ways once he realizes that you don't enforce the training the way his boot camp trainer did and 3. everytime you want to train mic you'll have to do this again because you guys didn't train to train him. |
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rattytatty

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| 11/05/2007 1:54 PM |
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Kim -- I pm'd you and suggested you communicate with Shannon (Mario07). You wouldn't believe the transition that little Mario has made with just a few one-on-one sessions! This was one little timid dog at one time... but with the commitment that Shannon has made with Mario's training, this little guy is not timid anymore. He's very sociable and well adjusted. Just a suggestion... good to talk to someone who has had some "hands on" one-on-one training. And... Shannon has had NO training experience at all !! |
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kimrose

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| 11/05/2007 2:01 PM |
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I agree, I want to be there for the training... I mean, I know its me and Kevin with the issues I just have to convince Kevin that its us that need the training, and that Mic is a dog who is not out to get him! He seriously still thinks that Mic has a coniving mind and mis-behaves to get revenge... How do you convince a stubborn guy that he's wrong?? Uhhh, I have been looking at dog trainers all morning... and all weekend. I seriously think there are a billion here! How the heck do you pick! And its not like I can meet them first, they all charge to meet them! I really want to find one today so I can start soon  |
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Mitzy's Mom

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| 11/05/2007 2:07 PM |
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Maybe get some references from other people who've had them train their dogs? Also, talk to them a lot to see if their idea of training works for you....can you watch them train without paying? I know with horse trainers you can spend a lot of time talking to them and watching them work with other horses....and if they won't do that then they might be hiding something. |
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kimrose

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| 11/05/2007 2:37 PM |
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Posted By Mitzy's Mom on 11/05/2007 2:07 PM
Maybe get some references from other people who've had them train their dogs? Also, talk to them a lot to see if their idea of training works for you....can you watch them train without paying?
I know with horse trainers you can spend a lot of time talking to them and watching them work with other horses....and if they won't do that then they might be hiding something.
that's a good idea... I would like to see them "at work"... I think when I narrow it down I will find out if I can do that 
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mario07

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| 11/05/2007 3:40 PM |
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Hey, Kim!! Long time, no see lately!! I'm sorry to hear about Mic. I'd be happy to talk to you about training. I had NO clue what I was doing and within a few short lessons (via Nora) I was trained so I could train Mario. It really doesn't take a ton of time, just a commitment to do it. Also, please get the book The other End of the Leash by Patricia B. McConnell, PH.D. This book really gives an incredible insight into how dog's think and why they behave they way they do. It's helped me understand Mario on a much deeper level and I can anticipate things and understand so as to diffuse frustration and anger. I'll PM you my number... I love to talk!! The biggest thing that I've learned through all of this training is that I am the one in training... Mario wants to please me. I just need to learn how to communicate with him. Just a moment to brag... after only reading about half of this book. I can get Mario to "come", "sit", "down" (lay down), "stay" and "roll over" without saying ONE word! It's truly amazing to use body and hand signals with Mario. He seems to understand my body language much better than my speaking language. It's so exciting to see this and I'm amazed by how much of a joy he is. Kim, i knew NOTHING at all. Just ask Nora! LOL Seriously, it just takes a little time and consistency. You can do this on your own. A boot camp might help someone else work with Mic, but you aren't getting the benefit of learning. I know you know this so I encourage you to call Nora, then if you need a visual... I can post some videos of these techniques. I know Mic can be a GREAT dog! I know also that you and Kevin can be GREAT trainers too!  |
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kimrose

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| 11/05/2007 4:18 PM |
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I love you guys, you always make my problems seem manageable Just had to let ya know!
Ok, so I'm looking at these 2 places right now. Are either of these a place you would send your rattie? (for the private - in home training)
http://www.westcoastk9.com/
http://www.johnknowsdogs.com/index.html
I'm going to call both after work, explain Mic's behavior issues and see what they would suggest. I wonder if they have a package for aggression (towards Kevin!), sep. anxiety, socialization, dominance. This is gonna cost a small fortune isn't it...
I actually called the 1st place about 1 1/2 yrs ago when we were having issues, but we couldn't afford it. But the women on the phone gave me some tips and emailed me some articles.
Does anyone have any tips on anything I should ask? I'm just so overwhelmed by looking at all these sites that my mind has been worn out for the moment  |
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rattytatty

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| 11/05/2007 5:24 PM |
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Thanks, Shannon... for providing this insight ! We're all kinda in this together and I think it's wonderful that we can bounce our successes (and failures too!) off each other this way. I posted SOMEWHERE some questions that need to be asked before hiring any trainer. I can't look for them right now because I'm in a wallpaper mess with hubby and MUST give it top priority this evening. Tracey -- is there any way you can find this post for Kim and send it to her??? I'm so sorry I'm in a rush. I stripped wallpaper this weekend and took off half the drywall... so hubby is having to fix it. :=( The least I can do is help... I'll check back later on here for an update, and to see if Tracey found the post I'm referring to. |
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kimrose

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| 11/05/2007 5:36 PM |
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Posted By rattytatty on 11/05/2007 5:24 PM
Thanks, Shannon... for providing this insight ! We're all kinda in this together and I think it's wonderful that we can bounce our successes (and failures too!) off each other this way.
I posted SOMEWHERE some questions that need to be asked before hiring any trainer. I can't look for them right now because I'm in a wallpaper mess with hubby and MUST give it top priority this evening.
Tracey -- is there any way you can find this post for Kim and send it to her???
I'm so sorry I'm in a rush. I stripped wallpaper this weekend and took off half the drywall... so hubby is having to fix it. :=( The least I can do is help...
I'll check back later on here for an update, and to see if Tracey found the post I'm referring to.
me thinks me found it! 
http://www.rat-terrier.com/Home/tabid/37/forumid/5/tpage/1/view/topic/postid/82675/Default.aspx#82699
is this what you were referring to?
"1. What "standard" methods does the trainer use and why? (realizing that the "standard" methods have to be flexible depending on the owner AND the dog and the owner's relationship with the dog!)
2. Can the trainer's method be easily explained? (can YOU understand the trainer's method? If the trainer understands the methods and you don't... you can't teach them to your dog.)
3. Can/will the trainer provide you with an honest explanation of the pros and cons of methods he or she will use if asked? (keeping in mind that any method can have an adverse outcome depending on application)
4. Does the trainer provide any guarantees, include follow-up support, and at what cost?
5. What experience does the trainer have? " |
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barbijo53

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| 11/05/2007 7:11 PM |
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| We had a very good trainer at PetSmart. Other chains like that have training classes also. The transformation of Nibs in just 8 weeks of class was remarkable. Of course you have to follow up with the training at home. I guess I feel we all get trained, they learn what we expect and we learn how to work best with our own dog since they all train differently. Nibs was about 13 months old when we rescued him and tended to be a bit aggressive due to his past abuse. He is now a well behaved member of our family. I wish you luck with however you handle your training situation. There are so many choices it is hard to decide on which way to go. |
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rattytatty

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| 11/06/2007 8:12 AM |
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Good morning, Kim... sorry I didn't get back on the forum last night, but hubby and I were busy busy busy trying to fix the mess I had created over the weekend. I'm glad you found the post I referred to, and thanks Tracey for finding it also. I hope you had an opportunity to talk to some trainers last night ... will be interested to hear an update from you today if you have a chance, ok? |
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kimrose

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| 11/06/2007 11:10 AM |
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Good Morning! Actually, I didn't get a chance to make any calls last night, I got very busy with homework (harder than I thought) and it was due last night... But, that's ok, it gives me more time while I'm at work today to research and I'm going to make a list of the questions I want to ask Nora, your list gave me that idea! thank you!! I'm so excited!! I hope the one I pick isn't to booked up, I want to start ASAP!! Like... tomorrow And thank you barbijo, I actually did consider Petsmart for training, I know the one by me has a great trainer... I've actually spoken with him a few times, he's great! However I think we need to work with Mic one on one with a trainer in our home for some of his issues first... |
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