Header Graphic
 Search  
Saturday, August 30, 2008 ..:: Home ::.. Register  Login
 Ratty Messages          Minimize

  
 Recent Photos/Videos  Minimize

  
 Recent 'Just Chat'       Minimize

  

If you need help, or have questions, comments or suggestions, please post in the Rat-Terrier.com Info and Help forum.

General Moderators:
Lance
Morgan
Tracey

Training Moderator:
Nora

 You're Not Alone Minimize
Membership Membership:
Latest New User Latest: cowgirl_up
New Today New Today: 1
New Yesterday New Yesterday: 4
User Count Overall: 2189

People Online People Online:
Visitors Visitors: 23
Members Members: 9
Total Total: 32

Online Now Online Now:
01: wmars1776
02: tauney4
03: treble02
04: yogis mom
05: Philo
06: gwacie
07: tink's mom
08: ivy
09: amr23

 Print   
 Rat-Terrier.com Minimize
Subject: Male or Female?
Prev Next
You are not authorized to post a reply.

Page 1 of 212 > >>
Author Messages
Erinj09


Ratastic
Ratastic
06/29/2008 11:27 PM  

ok so i would just love people to give me their advice so i have something to compare and contrast. thanks in advance

 

so ok i am getting a rattie in a few months and am going to wiat till the puppies are born so i know my options, but i would love to hear why people love about heir ratties becasue of their gender. im sure that there are pluses and negative to having a male or female, and just hearing what everyone says might let me know some stuff i wouldnt have thought of when making my decisions.

please just leave you opinions and experience and i woulkd be so greatful. thank you

~Erin

susieq


Rattie
Rattie
06/30/2008 12:44 AM  
Males mark and tend to be more dominant. I love my girls but my sister has their brother and he's an awesome dog too. I just couldn't stand a dog that marked ANYTHING in my home. So I got girls. Do you have another dog? What gender is it? I wanted the male pup when I got my 2nd girl but decided against it because then you have to be careful that accidental mating doesn't occur.

"In order to really enjoy a dog, one doesn't merely try to train him to be semihuman. The point of it is to open oneself to the possibility of becoming partly a dog." - Edward Hoagland
tiggarat


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
06/30/2008 1:59 AM  
I've loved all my dogs, so it's hard to tell...the only ratties I've ever had are my girls, so I don't know how male ratties are. It seems that the male dogs that I've had (labs and dobies) were louder than the girls (lab mix, spaniel, dobie, ratties)...I'd have a chorus of howling and barking when I left or came home with the boys, but with the girls...silence...they're at the door, all wiggly and happy to see me, but not a sound. (I had a 4 males at one time, now I have 3 girls). I never had a problem with the boys marking INSIDE the house, but potty time could be a chore because they all had to line up to mark the same exact spot twice.

My mom swears that the best dog in the world is a spayed female.

Overall, I think the personality matters more than whether the dog is male or female...go for a pup that has a great personaility that compliments your own and you won't be disappointed.

Lisabeth

furbabies: Lucy and Molly (1 1/2 yr old decker ratties), and Rosie (3 yr old dobie)
Buddy - gone but never forgotten.

"I don't think he has any idea he's a dog, really. Of course, he thinks he has a rather odd figure for a man" - Dodie Smith
Mitzy's Mom


Alpha Feist
Alpha Feist
06/30/2008 7:03 AM  
I agree that the personality matter much more than the sex of the dog.

Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids

Georgia Foster Mom
www.ratbonerescues.com; www.newrattitude.org
Paul


Feisty
Feisty
06/30/2008 7:10 AM  

I would think if you got a male while he was a little puppy and potty trained him to go outside, and nad him neutered at a young age, marking wouldnt be a problem.  Bo doesnt ever pee in the house, but he does like to mark every thing that is vertical when we go for walks----fence posts, weeds, tall bugs (haha).   I have a male and a female rattie---both spayed & neutered---and their personalities are quite different, but both are so sweet----I really couldnt make a choice about which is better, I love them both. 


"Train now, or forever hold your leash"

http://www.flickr.com/photos/doberdad/
swatson6


Attention Starved
Attention Starved
06/30/2008 7:15 AM  
I agree it is much more the individual dog than the sex, BUT I had to chime in here that not all males "mark" and I personally feel females are more dominant in general. I have never had even 1 issue with my boys, I have had more urinating issues with females I have owned (non-rattie) than any male dogs I have ever had. So it is a matter of personal opinion. I would wait and see the pups personalities and pick the one that fits you.

Sarah



Mitzy's Mom


Alpha Feist
Alpha Feist
06/30/2008 7:23 AM  
I have 2 boys right now (1 mine and 1 foster) and brought both into my house right after neutering. Skipper marked once inside and then never again...Gavin never did. I wouldn't think it would be a problem at all if you get a puppy and then neuter him.

And it's been my experience that females are more dominant, too.....but then I've only had 2 males!

Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids

Georgia Foster Mom
www.ratbonerescues.com; www.newrattitude.org
Kasey's Mom


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
06/30/2008 7:31 AM  

I have two male dogs, that are mine personally, and one female foster.  both of my male dogs are squatters, and both are neutered.  the only time Kasey marks, is when there's another stray dogs or cats or people walking by, but other than that, he just squats.  Indy, my other male dog, who is about a year and half old, hiked his leg once....  i know, weird huh?  but he has a bum leg so he just squat and it's easier for him....

my female foster is not afraid to stand her ground with other dogs. especially with Indy, since he can be such pest, because he's very persistant to get someone to play with him....  but I've always had males. and was told that males are more friendly.....   but if you are going to get him/her as a pup, i think you'll do fine with either one, because she/he will adjust easily.  and get early training... so that will help alot. 


Mardi
Momma to Kasey and Indy

~~Dance like nobody's watching~~
Maureen


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
06/30/2008 7:32 AM  
I have one of each also. Because Ty was adopted when he was a bit older...from Ratbones...he is still peeing occasionally in the house. Mainly at night. He is a bit more loving than my girl. Think it depends on the dog...and once you see them you will probably know which one to choose!

Maureen Mom to Abby, Barkley and Reggie..and cat Sarah Jane

Scratch a dog and you'll find a permanent job. ~Franklin P. Jones

treble02


Pack Leader
Pack Leader
06/30/2008 7:42 AM  
well, for me...i have one boy and one girl.
Trixi is such a lady. She eats one piece of kibble at a time. and chews it up. She will sniff poop, but only from far away and is VERY careful not to get too close, she sits and sleeps like a lady ( most of the time) BUT she has more energy than Toa, she is quicker to bark and growl and start playtime. She is more snuggly and has to sleep under the covers.

Toa, on the other hand, is such a BOY! He is a vacumn with his food, no chewing! He will EAT poop! BLAH! When he is tired he literally PLOPS down and will sleep ANYWHERE...he is usually too hot to be under covers. He is more lazy too!

As far as the marking is concerned...Toa doesnt seem to mark..it seems more like he has had a few accidents cause they seem tol be in the same place...i dunno....

good luck and based on all this info, I would say that the sex doesnt matter as much as the personality!

~ Mary, Trixi and Toa's Mommy
Ratbone Rescues Foster Mommy
gwacie


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
06/30/2008 7:49 AM  
I LOVE my boys. I've had a lot of dogs in my life and, in general, the girls are more apt to be fighters if there is going to be one, often more dominant too. So long as you train your boys young and get them neutered right away when they are old enough, they don't mark. None of mine are indoor markers. I have 3 boys and 1 girl and generally take in boys for fostering since bringing in girls often means fighting and foolishness.

PLUS a neutered male is about the sweetest most devoted companion ever. They are big lover bugs, wanting attention and more cuddles than the girls who stay more independant often. Give me boys every time.

My mom always had us get females growing up, she too was afraid of marking and so forth. So my first dogs were always girls too. Turns out we were wrong, boys are actually easier IMO.

gwacie (Bethany)
http://www.myadams.net/dogs/
winnihoohoo


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
06/30/2008 7:55 AM  
I have two girls and two boys. I love them all equally. My girls can be a little more skittish. My boys seem to warm up to strangers quicker. They all love to held on your lap, and cuddled, but my boys seem more needy of attention. Sometimes at night, when I am on the computer, they all want attention. Brielle is a real treat hogger. If the others don't eat their treat right away, she will go get it, and have three treats lying on the couch in front of her, and dare any one of them to come near her to try and get one.
Erinj09


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/01/2008 1:07 AM  
thank you all for all of your opinions, it really helps, but then on the other hand it makes my decision more difficult since they are all great lol but i guess i will just have to find which is better for me.

oh, those that have both genders, are males a lot more bigger than femalte? i know it depends on the parents and litters, but i mean fr,m the same litters for example. just wondering how big of a difference it is. i am getting a standard, so i know the sixes vary quite a bit.

thanks everyone
tiggarat


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
07/01/2008 2:26 AM  
males in general tend to be a little bit bigger than females...not a huge difference, though. I only have girl ratties (Deckers), but they are very different in build and weight...and they're littermates. Molly is husky (but not overweight), and basically has a tougher build...I don't know how else to describe it. Lucy on the other hand, is skinny and has a slight build. They're both 16" tall at the shoulders. Molly is 31 lbs and Lucy is 26.6 lbs...they just got weighed last night. You can't always go by the parents...their mom is only 22 lbs, and their dad is 26 lbs. The girls only had one boy in their litter, and last I heard, he was 18" tall, and about 30 lbs, so, yeah, a little bigger than his sisters, height-wise anyways.

Lisabeth

furbabies: Lucy and Molly (1 1/2 yr old decker ratties), and Rosie (3 yr old dobie)
Buddy - gone but never forgotten.

"I don't think he has any idea he's a dog, really. Of course, he thinks he has a rather odd figure for a man" - Dodie Smith
winnihoohoo


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
07/01/2008 9:41 AM  

Are you getting a standard, as in 18-20 lbs? Or miniature like 12-14 lbs?There are also toys, up to10 lbs.

Posted By Erinj09 on 07/01/2008 1:07 AM
thank you all for all of your opinions, it really helps, but then on the other hand it makes my decision more difficult since they are all great lol but i guess i will just have to find which is better for me.

oh, those that have both genders, are males a lot more bigger than femalte? i know it depends on the parents and litters, but i mean fr,m the same litters for example. just wondering how big of a difference it is. i am getting a standard, so i know the sixes vary quite a bit.

thanks everyone

 

RatsRule!


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/01/2008 12:17 PM  
I chose females because I was worried that males mark and hump and I didn't want to deal with/see "lipstick". Guess what! Females mark and hump too! So, I strongly agree with the others that you should choose based on personality. I love my two girls, and they have VERY different personalities. Bonnie is a total cuddle bug and Chloe is my wild child! You might not be able to determine the dogs complete personality at that age, but should see some clue as to what they'll be like, so I'd go with that. Try to find what you are looking for personality wise. That is unless you have an issue with "lipstick" the way I do- LoL!! (Sorry- it just bugs me for some reason-I can't help it)

~~ Life is awesome when you share it with a couple of Ratties! ~~
Terri, proud mom of Chloe & Bonnie!
````````````````````````````````````````````
Ratbone Rescues Application Coordinator
farmergurlyo


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/01/2008 12:25 PM  

dumb question, but is there a big difference visually between the different sizes? or are they decently similar?

 

Posted By winnihoohoo on 07/01/2008 9:41 AM

Are you getting a standard, as in 18-20 lbs? Or miniature like 12-14 lbs?There are also toys, up to10 lbs.

Posted By Erinj09 on 07/01/2008 1:07 AM
thank you all for all of your opinions, it really helps, but then on the other hand it makes my decision more difficult since they are all great lol but i guess i will just have to find which is better for me.

oh, those that have both genders, are males a lot more bigger than femalte? i know it depends on the parents and litters, but i mean fr,m the same litters for example. just wondering how big of a difference it is. i am getting a standard, so i know the sixes vary quite a bit.

thanks everyone

 


Ashley~ soon to be ratty mommy
Erinj09


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/01/2008 10:49 PM  
im pretty sure my pup will turn out to be a small standard or a big miniature, around in the middle anyway, or so. its not a big deal to me when theres "lipstick" i just ignore it and laugh a little lol, as long as hes not sitting right ther on me lol i really cnt see any deciding factores that make me want eiter sex, i am thinking about going with a female though, unless i dont have a choice and i have to get a male. guess i will just have to keep an open mind till i know what it possible lol

winnihoohoo


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
07/01/2008 10:53 PM  
Posted By Erinj09 on 07/01/2008 10:49 PM
im pretty sure my pup will turn out to be a small standard or a big miniature, around in the middle anyway, or so. its not a big deal to me when theres "lipstick" i just ignore it and laugh a little lol, as long as hes not sitting right ther on me lol i really cnt see any deciding factores that make me want eiter sex, i am thinking about going with a female though, unless i dont have a choice and i have to get a male. guess i will just have to keep an open mind till i know what it possible lol



Usally the "lipstick" does not come out unless he smells a female dog in heat....

farmergurlyo


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/01/2008 10:54 PM  
OR
you could get both! lol

Ashley~ soon to be ratty mommy
melo


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/01/2008 11:11 PM  
Yea not a fan of the the lipstick--In fact I want to see no equpment which is why I got a girl--- That said Nora has turned out to be a mixed bag. She is very lady like precise and adoring.

On the other hand she seems to be a bit of a playground instigator, and as much or really more than any males I see. I am sure that personality is also a dominating thing as other people say--but I will only have girls even if they are a bit tempermental) Hear that Katie Scarlett????

What a dump!---Bette Davis
susieq


Rattie
Rattie
07/01/2008 11:30 PM  

Posted By tiggarat on 07/01/2008 2:26 AM
males in general tend to be a little bit bigger than females...not a huge difference, though. I only have girl ratties (Deckers), but they are very different in build and weight...and they're littermates. Molly is husky (but not overweight), and basically has a tougher build...I don't know how else to describe it. Lucy on the other hand, is skinny and has a slight build. They're both 16" tall at the shoulders. Molly is 31 lbs and Lucy is 26.6 lbs...they just got weighed last night. You can't always go by the parents...their mom is only 22 lbs, and their dad is 26 lbs. The girls only had one boy in their litter, and last I heard, he was 18" tall, and about 30 lbs, so, yeah, a little bigger than his sisters, height-wise anyways.

I adopted Liberty who I am pretty sure had a Decker daddy.  She is a whopping 22lbs and has the "Decker look".  She looks just like Tiggarat's avatar!  From the same litter my sister adopted Shiloh.  They were the same size and had the same look then.  Now Shiloh has grown to be a mini like my Belle at around 13lbs and they both look different in the face than my much bigger Libby.  The stud my breeder chose was not used because they wouldn't "take" to each other so another one was substituted in.  My breeder had no luck getting pictures or much info on the stud used.  He MUST have been a Decker.  I have also emailed the stud's breeder with no response.   Do you think Libs is a Decker? 

As far as dominance goes, you are all so right!  I was thinking of the shelter dogs I have dealt with and we get primarily males who are VERY bossy and that's more with people than other dogs.  My girl Belle can be quite bossy - she tells my brother's ROtt when he can eat during his vacations with us! 

 


"In order to really enjoy a dog, one doesn't merely try to train him to be semihuman. The point of it is to open oneself to the possibility of becoming partly a dog." - Edward Hoagland
Erinj09


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/02/2008 12:03 AM  
i disagree, ive seen the lipstick many times when there wasnt a female around. sometimes it just comes out to say hi, but no one likes to say hi back lol
tiggarat


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
07/02/2008 3:00 AM  
Posted By susieq on 07/01/2008 11:30 PM

Posted By tiggarat on 07/01/2008 2:26 AM
males in general tend to be a little bit bigger than females...not a huge difference, though. I only have girl ratties (Deckers), but they are very different in build and weight...and they're littermates. Molly is husky (but not overweight), and basically has a tougher build...I don't know how else to describe it. Lucy on the other hand, is skinny and has a slight build. They're both 16" tall at the shoulders. Molly is 31 lbs and Lucy is 26.6 lbs...they just got weighed last night. You can't always go by the parents...their mom is only 22 lbs, and their dad is 26 lbs. The girls only had one boy in their litter, and last I heard, he was 18" tall, and about 30 lbs, so, yeah, a little bigger than his sisters, height-wise anyways.

I adopted Liberty who I am pretty sure had a Decker daddy.  She is a whopping 22lbs and has the "Decker look".  She looks just like Tiggarat's avatar!  From the same litter my sister adopted Shiloh.  They were the same size and had the same look then.  Now Shiloh has grown to be a mini like my Belle at around 13lbs and they both look different in the face than my much bigger Libby.  The stud my breeder chose was not used because they wouldn't "take" to each other so another one was substituted in.  My breeder had no luck getting pictures or much info on the stud used.  He MUST have been a Decker.  I have also emailed the stud's breeder with no response.   Do you think Libs is a Decker? 

 

I'd love to see some pics of Libby.  The one in my avatar is Molly.

It's hard to tell without knowing the dad's background.  Decker refers mostly to a specific bloodline, and ratties need to have a certain amount (at least 50%) of that bloodline to be considered a Decker...my girls are 62% Decker, for instance.  Assuming that the mom is NOT a Decker, the pups probably wouldn't be Deckers even if the dad was...the percentage simply wouldn't be high enough.  She very well could have some Decker bloodline in her, but with her littermate being so small, it's doubtful.  I think Libby would be considered a Standard sized rattie. 


Lisabeth

furbabies: Lucy and Molly (1 1/2 yr old decker ratties), and Rosie (3 yr old dobie)
Buddy - gone but never forgotten.

"I don't think he has any idea he's a dog, really. Of course, he thinks he has a rather odd figure for a man" - Dodie Smith
winnihoohoo


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
07/02/2008 7:36 AM  
Posted By Erinj09 on 07/02/2008 12:03 AM
i disagree, ive seen the lipstick many times when there wasnt a female around. sometimes it just comes out to say hi, but no one likes to say hi back lol



I will never be able to use lipstick again...But males can smell a female in heat for up to 5 miles, I have heard. Maybe he was just excited. LOL!

farmergurlyo


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/02/2008 11:00 AM  
eeewwww! even if they've been neutered? or does that not matter?

Ashley~ soon to be ratty mommy
melo


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/02/2008 1:01 PM  
I have seem a 12 year old, tired nueterd male with lipstick AND humping. The sitter was embaressed for sure and I was surpirsed, like what a dirty old man!!!!!

Does nuetering lessen the lipstick at least?


What a dump!---Bette Davis
tauney4


Pack Leader
Pack Leader
07/02/2008 1:05 PM  
i have a male chi and tauney is a rattie. i really like the breed they are so full of spunk and life. this is my first rattiei have ever had so i would nt know what it is like having a male rattie. i dress tauney up all the time in clothes and bling and everything!!!!!!
gwacie


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
07/02/2008 4:06 PM  
We dont' get a lot of "lipstick" moments here. Peanut used to show his a lot when he first got here as a submissive thing, he'd roll over, pee and show everything. Neutering and confidence helped both of those things and we seldom get a glimpse of the red these days, happily. Eddie never flashes his and Zip only on the rarest of occasions. I think neutering must diminish the frequency but I have no basis in fact for thinking that. I'll take the occasional flash over cranky food guarding girls any day, and I've had both. Of course our greyhound girl never was cranky or food protective. I'm not sure she was smart enough to be either but she was sweet!!

gwacie (Bethany)
http://www.myadams.net/dogs/
melo


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/02/2008 4:13 PM  
yea the smart ones can get qutie crankie---i quess they want control they can never realy have eheheh Wait who am i really talking about here!!!! GRRRRRRRRRRRR

What a dump!---Bette Davis
You are not authorized to post a reply.
Page 1 of 212 > >>




ActiveForums 3.7

 Print   

Copyright 2008   Terms Of Use  Privacy Statement