dbleblanc
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| 06/29/2008 2:58 PM |
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I just wanted to let you know that I am ok. I am not sick or physically hurt. I really do not want to talk to anyone. Sorry if I gave you a scare, that was not my intention!! My teen age son is back home as of a few weeks ago and last night we all got into a really big fight. My husband and I are now on the outs which breaks my heart. This normally happens when my son comes back around but never this bad. My husband was talking about leaving me and it just crushed me because the "real" problem is not us, we are just taking it out on each other.. very very long story but I think you get the idea.
In addition to our fighting, I am so worried about Kasey. We got some new news about the disease he had a few weeks ago and now the doctors want him checked for aneurisms on his heart. This just scares me to death. I bring him to the hospital Monday. I am also concerned about his broken arm, it smells the rotten right now so we have to get that checked out too.
So, I guess we all have very short fuses right now and it didn't take much to set off the fighting that lasted for hours last night. I know Nora called for me earlier, I didn't answer the phone because I am just not ready to sit and talk with anyone. I sure hope she understands. I feel so confused and at times I really don't understand what happened last night myself. We really gave poor Kasey a scare which makes me/us feel sick about. We got out of control.
Please forgive me for scaring you or anyone else by my posting. I was such a mess and was just looking for an out put for my emotions. But I was crying so much that I could not see the screen.
Thank you for being a friend and checking up on me,
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gwacie
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
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| 06/29/2008 3:03 PM |
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Thinking about you and yours. Come by when you want some frivolous puppy fun to take your mind of your current situation...or if you need to vent.
Doggie hugs to you and your crew. |
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gwacie (Bethany)
My Doggies: http://www.myadams.net/dogs/
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tford6
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
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| 06/29/2008 3:07 PM |
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| Thanks for checking in I think we were all concerned about you. |
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Terri- mom to Abby Bella and Chloe the girls
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Brandy
Firehouse Big Dog
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| 06/29/2008 3:07 PM |
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Donna, sometimes life can scare the s&*t out of us and we do things we never thought we would do/say. The only thing I can tell you is that you need to take care of YOU!! You and your husband love each other and you both know it, sometimes kids can make you feel like you have to draw battle lines. DO NOT give you oldest that power...it's not fair to Kasey, you or your hubby. Kids are pretty understanding too, if Kasey was scared, sit him down and remind him that Mommy and Daddy still love each other and that even people who love each other get mad with each other. This is what we've done with our kids when we have gone through some tough times that we KNEW better than to let them see/hear. I let my kids know that even though I am Mommy and Dad is Daddy....the FIRST thing we are is HUMAN and that we have FEELINGS and that we sometimes let those feelings get the best of us. I usually remind them about how bad they argue, but when it's all over they still love each other. This may not be applicable in your situation, but it's just my two cents worth.
Also, PLEASE remember that we are here for you, whether you want to discuss what is happening or not, we are still here for support. We don't need to know WHY we are supporting you, just that you NEED support!! You are still in my prayers...I am praying for the strength you need to get through whatever is going on...now I will add a prayer for Kasey's health to the list!!
Love you sweetie!!!
Brandy |
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PROUD Home Visit Coordinator for Ratbone's Rescue!!
This is Pirate Country, we bleed Purple and Gold!!!!!
GO ECU!!! |
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Bailey's mom
Bratty Ratty
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| 06/29/2008 3:14 PM |
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I'm glad to hear from you and that you are OK, I hope everything goes good with Kasey at the Dr.
I went through some tough times with my oldest son a few years and that's probably one of the reasons I'm not married today. (his stepdad) But everything worked out for the best and my son is doing wonderful today and has turned out to be a great father and husband (as of yesterday). I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. We are here for support if you need us. |
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~Nancy~
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treble02
Pack Leader
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| 06/29/2008 3:24 PM |
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| glad to hear from you Donna...so sorry about everything!! I will keep you in my thoughts and know that I am here if or when you want to share anything more....If not, I am here to just pray and hope that things will come around....((((HUGS)))) |
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~ Mary, Trixi and Toa's Mommy
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lynnygal
Terrier Terror
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| 06/29/2008 3:27 PM |
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Donna, you're in my thoughts....hope things get better....and hope Kasey is ok.
Lynn |
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texasjewel
Rat Royalty
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| 06/29/2008 6:09 PM |
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| Donna, will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. (((HUGS))) to Kasey, too. |
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Jean - Bailey and Lucy's Mom.
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Yukon Cornelius
Ratastic
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| 06/29/2008 6:15 PM |
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So glad that you checked in. It sound like a very stressful situation is happening for you and your family. I'll be praying that you and your hubby get things worked out and for a healing for your little guy. May God bless all of you. |
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We'll have to outwit the fiend with our superior intelligence.
http://lordmarley08.googlepages.com/home
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Lucy's Mommy
Ratastic
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| 06/29/2008 6:43 PM |
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| I'm happy you checked. Hope everything works out for you. |
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Noodles n Me
Terrier Terror
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| 06/29/2008 6:48 PM |
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| AAWWW Sweetie I can feel the confusion and frustration in your words. Happy positive thoughts being sent your way. Fingers and paws crossed for you and yours to get through this together with love. |
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There is no joy greater than being owned by a Rattie!!
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Kasey's Mom
Terrier Terror
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| 06/29/2008 6:56 PM |
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Awwww, I'm so sorry for all of this craziness around you.... ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) I'll be thinking of you and your family. and thank you for checking in..... even just to say hi.... and if you want to talk or vent or just to chat in general about ratties, or family we are all here for ya...... I am so sorry that you have this big burden right now and I pray that God helps you through it.
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Mardi
Momma to Kasey and Indy
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wayawaya
Newbie
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| 06/29/2008 7:34 PM |
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| Donna, you don't know me, but I read a post on nola.com about many people that were concerned about you. I emailed so many people in your area to try check with you to see if you were ok and/or needed assistance. I am so glad I will be able to get back and tell all concerned that you checked back in and for them not to worry. Not only are the animals blessed with all of these wonderful, loving caring people, but so are you, you are loved by many. Our prayers for you and your family for all your struggles, bless you and bless all of your wonderful, loving friends out there. |
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Maureen
Firehouse Big Dog
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| 06/29/2008 8:31 PM |
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| Hugs to you!! and that darling little guy!!! |
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Maureen Mom to Abby, Barkley and Reggie..and cat Sarah Jane
Scratch a dog and you'll find a permanent job. ~Franklin P. Jones
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michelle
Bratty Ratty
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| 06/29/2008 8:34 PM |
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Donna,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Let usknow if you need anything |
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michelle, mom to Sydney (JRT), Sonic (Rattie) and Proud mom to Army son, Jordan
http://www.dogster.com/dogs/893222 Sydney
http://www.dogster.com/dogs/893220 Sonic
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tauney4
Pack Leader
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| 06/29/2008 8:34 PM |
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| oh donna i wish i could wave a magic wand and make all the bad disappear. |
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Baileydukedavis
Terrier Terror
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| 06/29/2008 8:34 PM |
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I am glad that you are okay...I understand you are going through alot. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Everything will be okay  |
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"If your dog doesn't like someone you probably shouldn't either." - Unknown
Bailey Duke Tazman Davis, Sydney Grace Davis and Chance Tazman Davis. |
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kp_in_scott
Bratty Ratty
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| 06/29/2008 8:45 PM |
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| You are in my prayers Donna. |
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Kim, owned by one sweet Rattie mix and one sweet Toy Rattie and a house full of parrots |
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PamWh
Rattitude Problem
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| 06/29/2008 8:46 PM |
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| Ditto what everyone said. A lot of us have been there with kids that are going through wild oats/drugs/etc. If you need to talk to us, go right ahead. If you want to use this site as an escape from home life, go right ahead with that too. |
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PamWh
aka Bob's Mom
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pepper
Obsessed
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| 06/29/2008 8:55 PM |
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| YOU may not get these messages for a while, but it just goes to show how much we all care!!! Take time for you. We will still all be here. Here's hoping for the best outcomes for you and your family. |
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Kristin ~ Pepper's mommy |
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garyjena
Terrier Terror
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| 06/30/2008 8:02 AM |
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| Donna, words cannot express how sorry I am for what you are going through. You are such a great person. Please take care of yourself and take all the time you need to heal your heart and your soul. Know that when you are ready, we will be here for you. Whatever you need, a laugh, a cry, some silliness, some serious discussion, we are here. You are loved. Take care of Kasey and know that you and your family are in my prayers. |
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Amy
Bratty Ratty
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| 06/30/2008 9:29 AM |
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Donna, thank you for letting us know that you are alright. We were really worried. I do agree with what Brandy said about giving your son too much power by coming between you and your husband. When you get a chance I do hope that you at least let us know how Kasey is doing. Gosh I hope he is okay. Please be sure to take care of yourself through all this.(((((((((hugs)))))))))) |
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Rowdy's Mom
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
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| 07/01/2008 1:08 AM |
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| Donna, you will be in our prayers. Thanks for checking in and reassuring us you were OK. I understand the need to have some time for yourself and time to get things repaired. We are here for you if you need someone to talk to and we are thinking and praying for you and the family while you deal with things. Hugs! |
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~Chrys~ Mom to Rowdy, Schatzi (shephard mix), and Sam (lab mix)
http://www.myspace.com/rowdyluvsschatzi
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