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kaet


Newbie
Newbie
07/12/2007 9:34 PM  

My husband insists that Wolf is the most selfish dog he's ever met.  He's sure the dog only cares about himself.  I insist he's simply an active little terrier and hasn't settled down enough for the caring/sharing stuff.  Yesterday turned out to be a true test for my little doggie man.

Saturday I went to the mall to shop and then join a friend for a movie and dinner.  It was a nice, relaxing fun day.  When I got on the bus to return home (our van was in the shop), I was patting myself on the back for all running so smoothly.  It didn't even cross my mind that the driver was running late and apparently too busy to secure my chair.  The first left turn he made, my chair fell over on its side, spilling me out.  My very hard head bounced at  least three times, and my arm had some pretty serious abrasions.  911 had to be called because I couldn't get back in my chair.  I was miserable but at least my chair was operational, except for the armrest being broken, the little thingy that keeps the power cable attached to the joystick cracked and the fastener that keeps all the power cables secure was gone. 

Wolf didn't pay me any attention when I came home.  No sympathy from him.

Then yesterday  my son and I were speeding through Wal-Mart's parking lot when the chair went dead., thanks to the iffy connection due to the pounding the chair took on the bus.  When it stopped, I kept going and landed on the 115 + degree blacktop.  I freaked because it was hot.  Luckily, there were guys doing construction work who came over and helped me back in my chair.  This time I was sure I had broken my leg.  I couldn't leave my son at the store, so we made it home.  The chair blinked out a couple more times, but we were going less than 1 mph so I didn't  get pitched out.

Once home I called 911.  I was crying because I was in pain.  Charles was crying because he was freaked out.  Wolf was in his crate, looking back and forth between us frantically.  When the firetruck and ambulance arrived, he started howling, which turned into a bark when the house was filled with big men and their equipment.  My son and my neighbor sat with Wolf the whole time.

I got home five hours later with a very bruised, but not broken, knee and some second degree burns on the back of my legs.  When I came in the door, Wolf jumped out of my son's arms and ran over to me.  He was all concerned with his ears pinned back and the whites of his eyes showing.  He frantically sniffed and licked and wanted to be petted.  I said to my husband, "See, Wolfie does care about me."  My husband shook the bag holding our dinner.  Wolf's ears shot back up and he looked at me like, "Do I smell burgers and fries???"  Then he was off like a shot, doing ballet in an effort to get a fry.  My plight completely forgotten.

Okay, is he a sharing/caring canine or completely selfish??? 

ladyfern


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
07/12/2007 11:39 PM  
what a mess. i'm so sorry. it's hard enough dealing with life when you're on both feet and running full tilt but to be in that situation! my heart goes out to you. how are you feeling now? achy?
as for the pup, it's a dog, they are food oriented! thats not exactly fair play shaking a hamburger bag! sheesh!

ladyfern & shiloh

If you want the best seat in the house ... move the dog!

tauney4


Alpha Feist
Alpha Feist
07/13/2007 1:07 AM  
well see your ratttie does care. i am sorry for all what happened to you i hope you are feeling much better and healing fast.!!!!! what a terriable thing to happen to you
JRT_Rattie_Mom


Newbie
Newbie
07/13/2007 2:43 AM  

Ouch!  I'm so sorry to hear that you had these bad falls!  I can only imagine how painful this must have been, and how sore you must still be!  Does the bus company have insurance that will cover repairing your wheelchair?  If the bus driver should have secured your chair I would sure hope they would be responsible for taking care of any damage to the chair.... and to you!  

I don't think any of our dogs (without special training) would act very caring when a bag of yummy smelling food is shook in front of them... they'd rather EAT first, and then love us again!

Maureen


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
07/13/2007 5:45 AM  
Oh my you poor Honey!! Hope your ok today! Was wondering the same thing about the bus having insurance to fix or replace or wheelchair? I agree about the dogs and food. Reggie is my Hubby's Service Dog and he is trained and still has problems when food is involved. When we ride on an airplane [he is a 100# Lab] we are often squished in a row of seats with him at our feet. Whenever there was food served he would find a way to hit my leg with his paw..now his Dave's mine!! Needless to say he didn't get any!!

Maureen Mom to Abby, Barkley and Reggie..and cat Sarah Jane

Scratch a dog and you'll find a permanent job. ~Franklin P. Jones

Mitzy's Mom


PAWesome
PAWesome
07/13/2007 7:25 AM  
Wow, I'm so sorry you went through all that! The bus company should definitely take responsiblity there.
As for dog's loyality - I'm afraid most of our dogs would go for the food - at least he checked to make sure you were ok first!

Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids

Georgia Foster Mom, www.newrattitude.org
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PamWh


Rattitude Problem
Rattitude Problem
07/13/2007 8:40 AM  
Wow, you've had a rough few days! I hope you get to feeling better soon. I think Wolfie was obviously concerned about you, as he rushed right to you to check you out.

PamWh
aka Bob's Mom

If your rattie ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!
swatson6


Attention Starved
Attention Starved
07/13/2007 8:46 AM  
Oh man, what a crappy few days! I am glad your leg isn't brooken. Hope you start to feel better soon. Wolfie loves you and cares but a bag of burgers and fries?? I'd go running too!!

Sarah
Mom to Jack, Jeter and foster mom to Teagan



nycmom


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/13/2007 8:50 AM  
My gosh, two falls? I'm so sorry about your accidents, and the burns must be awfully painful.
See, you're hubby doesn't know what he's talking about. Your rattie loves you and was worried about you...maybe hubby is a wee bit jealous *opps, did I say that out loud?*
Brandy


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
07/13/2007 8:53 AM  
OMG!! I am so sorry about your falls. I hope that you are starting to recover and feel a little less sore. As far as Wolf goes, Max is the most loving, loyal doggie that any mommy could ask for................until you bring out food!!!!! Then it's all about the food! LOL

WAY TO GO ECU!! Conference USA Champions 2008!!!!!


This is Pirate Country, we bleed Purple and Gold!!!!!

Russ' Pal


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
07/13/2007 9:01 AM  
So, the stereotypical male would be your hubby, right? The one who got jealous of the dog and purposely distracted him?

Of course Wolfie cares- he barked at the big scary 911 guys, trying to protect you, and ran over first thing when you got back.

Sorry you had such a rough week, hope you heal up quickly.

-Sarah, pal to Russ & Peca
joyluvsratties


Ratastic
Ratastic
07/13/2007 10:19 AM  

Get well soon!  Hopefully the dog and the husband will come around.


*Joy

**We may not have it all together, but together we have it all**
kaet


Newbie
Newbie
07/13/2007 2:00 PM  
Thank you for all your messages. I'm still pretty sore but have pain pills that make me happy.

In order to get the bus company to pay for my chair repairs, I have to go through their office of risk management and fill out tons of paperwork. When I spoke to them, they said that drivers not securing wheelchairs and having the occupants fall is not at all uncommon. I need to start bugging people about putting signs up in the buses warning those in wheelchairs that this could easily happen. Although I feel like I've been hit by a bus, I'm pretty sturdy. I can't imagine what the same accident would do to someone who isn't as durable.

And yes, I think hubby is a bit jealous. When Wolfie was really little, he saw Wayne as the alpha and kissed butt. Now, not so much. Husband just can't get it through his thick skull that ratties are different than German Shepherds. Ratties have way more attitude and are much more stubborn. Wolf goes nuts when Wayne comes in and wants a pet, but after the initial greeting, Wolf doesn't interact with him much.

Kim
swatson6


Attention Starved
Attention Starved
07/13/2007 3:23 PM  
Don't you think that paperwork is a deterrant? I would take the time, they should have to pay, not get people to back off cause of aa the trouble to fill it all out!

Sarah
Mom to Jack, Jeter and foster mom to Teagan



Susan


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
07/13/2007 4:28 PM  
do the paperwork then complain, I think that the paperwork is just to keep people from filing complaints too. There are laws about wheelchairs on busses and IMO you should mention that fact to the managers/office staff at the company. An unsecured wheel chair can kill the ocupant if they are frail and a fall like that... well I would talk to a lawyer. Quite a few have no pay consulting for handicapped people.

ANYTHING WORTH DOING IS WORTH OVERDOING Mom of eight, only three left at home! Pack leader to ten ratties: Maggie, Mysty, Berry, Simon, Ceecee and five puppies, Star,Sari, Bluebelle, Double stuf,and Snortie. As well as Ginger the Border Collie and a herd of turkeys!
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