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JRT_Rattie_Mom


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
04/16/2007 3:50 AM  
This poem was shared by a Ratbone foster mom,  Julie Anderson in WI,  to a foster mom that was just sending her first foster dog off to his new home.

From Julie: When I picked up my first foster the wonderful woman that drove her to me gave me this poem in an envelope.   
 
Thank You,
For bringing this foster dog into my life!
 
Had I not made the decision to participate in rescue,
I would never have had the chance to meet him.
If I has sat here comfortably in my home and said
"I already have four dogs and I know that I couldn't take in another
even on a temporary basis," I would never have met this dog.
Yes, it takes time to rescue and foster...but who gave me the time in the first place?
And why or what was the reason that I was given Time?  To fill my own needs?
Or was there another reason ever so small and seemingly insignificant,
like rescuing this one dog that could make a difference in another's life?
Perhaps to add joy, hope, help and companionship to another who is in need?
With great sadness, I sat down on a footstool in my kitchen this morning
and watched as this foster dog bounced back into the house
and skidded across the floor to sit ever so perfectly in front of me.
He was the picture of health, finally.  He was all smiles for me...
And I smiled back at his happy face.
Deep in his eyes, the storm clouds of illness and generalized
poor health had blown away, and the clear light of his perfection
radiated out from his beautiful soul.  He holds no ill will toward man.
He forgives us all.  I thought to myself, as I impressed this one last long look
of her into my heart, what a very fine creature You have created.
Tears slowly pooled and spilled over my cheekbones
as the deeper realization of how wonderful this dog is,
sank into my internal life cabinet of Needful Things to Remember.
Lord, he is a dog - but he is a better human being that I am.
He has forgiven quickly.  Would I do the same?  He passionately enjoys
the simple things in life.  And I have often overlooked them.
He accepts change and gets on with his life.  I fuss and worry about change.
He lives today and loves today.  And I often dwell in the past
or worry about the future.  He loves no matter what.  I am not that free.
This very lovely dog has gone to his new home today
and I already miss him.
Thank You for bringing this dog into my life.
And thank you for the beautiful and tender lesson
on how to be a better human.


Karen G.
Lucy (JRT) & Holly (Rat Terrier)
Blind Dog Resources & Adoptions
Katie'sMom


Newbie
Newbie
04/16/2007 5:53 AM  
Oh, that's lovely Karen. And oh so true. If only humans could learn a few lessons from our canine friends. Dogs are such forgiving, loving creatures. That's why I always say I know they go to Heaven. They deserve to be there!
Mitzy's Mom


PAWesome
PAWesome
04/16/2007 6:44 AM  
That's beautiful. I've often wondered if I could foster because I'd get so attached to them!

Thank you to ALL the foster moms out there for taking caring of the babies and nursing them back to health, training them, loving them!

Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids

Georgia Foster Mom, www.newrattitude.org
Pics of my current fosters:
http://imageevent.com/newrattitude/caradoc
http://imageevent.com/newrattitude/willow
http://imageevent.com/newrattitude/fiona
Pamiknows


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
04/16/2007 7:05 AM  
Thats EXACTLY my issue with fostering. I would end up being "that old lady down the street that has 500 dogs!" I think foster parents are so totally special and have the biggest hearts in the world. You guys rock!!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/pamiknows/

Somedays it's just not worth chewing thru the restraints.




talleysmom


Ratastic
Ratastic
04/20/2007 2:02 PM  
I just have to say i'm in the midst of my first foster with cali and was freaking out because i was asked to pull 2 dogs on death row and get them ready to fly to washington (from texas) to a foster home...  we always have so much going on in our lives (which is how we like it most of the time) and I just started to panic as all the elements of this rescue had not yet come together... and i'm ashamed to say i almost backed out... however a meer 24hours later i'm feeling proud again - glad i'm not leaving these dogs to die because it have to get up early or drive a little further than i would like to at 4 in the morning... or stand my ground to a husband who does not care for the inconvenience of re-arranging his schedule for a DOG.  i read this again and it made me feel so much better.  its human nature to say I CANT but really usually you can - it just takes a little courage and strength .... and the ladies at rat-terrier.com and ratbone rescues have been a great source of support - thank you.  My work in this rescue is so small compared to the lady who has agreed to foster them that i'm embarassed i was freaking out over flight schedules, vet checks, animal shelter rules and regulations..... I will keep them overnight only (which should be a good source of proof to  my hubby i can help and not keep them!!  I know he still does not believe me when I say I am ready to adopt cali out to the right family) and i just wanted to say thanks for all your support and comfort.  I know i put myself in this position by not including my hubby- as i usually dont.... but i'm a pretty head strong hard headed person and rarely actually surprise him with anything i do.  He is not the animal person i am - but he does love his dogs (well - tolerates talley -hehe) but he overwhelms easily and i plan on respecting that and participating in transport only - not fostering - as long as i have cali.  I have to say she is SOOOOO soft and has baby fuzz all over her body now - it is soooo awesome to see her bloom into a beautiful dog.  i will  get pics at our playdate / meet up saturday and send them out... so keep an eye out for them :- )  thanks again .. ya'll are wonderful.
JenMax


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
04/20/2007 2:05 PM  
Robin. I can't wait to see pictures . I am so happy to hear about Cali's improvments ( soft and baby fuzz - yay!)

Jenny - Max's sister

JRT_Rattie_Mom


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
04/21/2007 3:14 AM  
Robin ~ Thank you SO MUCH for helping these 2 little Texas girls get to Washington... in addition to everything that you've done for sweet Cali!  

Oregon and Washington are always "short" on ratties, unlike Texas, Louisiana and other states where there are sadly so many that won't all be rescued.  It's wonderful people like you that give some of these dogs another chance,  by helping them get to the west coast, or other states with open foster homes. 

Again Robin ~  THANK YOU ~ for being an important "piece of the puzzle" that made this possible for these 2 sweet girls!

Karen G.
Lucy (JRT) & Holly (Rat Terrier)
Blind Dog Resources & Adoptions
PamWh


Rattitude Problem
Rattitude Problem
04/21/2007 7:48 AM  
I guess I'm going to be a foster mom to Emma this week. Luckily I know she already has a home and family waiting for her, so I won't get too attached. We'll see how I feel at the end of the week. I just got a call from Sara's husband that they are about 20 miles away from my house.

PamWh
aka Bob's Mom

If your rattie ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!
Apollo's Mommy


Feisty
Feisty
04/21/2007 9:04 AM  
Posted By Katie'sMom on 04/16/2007 5:53 AM
Oh, that's lovely Karen. And oh so true. If only humans could learn a few lessons from our canine friends. Dogs are such forgiving, loving creatures. That's why I always say I know they go to Heaven. They deserve to be there!


I second that Jan. 

And thank you to Pam and her hubby for 'fostering' my little Emma for a week.  Don't get to attached Pam! 

"You can't fix stupid." - Ron White

~ Jolene ~
Mommy to Apollo, Emma, & Indie


NavyDvrWife


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
04/21/2007 10:36 AM  
Wonderful moving poem.  It is true - being the foster mom and helping them grow in the dog they once were isn't the hard part.  It's seeing the progress they've made and letting them go - to open your home for another in need.  Foster moms are special! 

~ Errica, Batman, Blondie and Brock's Mommy
Foster Mom to Trinity Ratbone
Foster Parent & Happy Tails Crew
Ratbone Rescues
JRT_Rattie_Mom


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
04/22/2007 2:35 AM  
Posted By PamWh on 04/21/2007 7:48 AM
I guess I'm going to be a foster mom to Emma this week. Luckily I know she already has a home and family waiting for her, so I won't get too attached. We'll see how I feel at the end of the week. I just got a call from Sara's husband that they are about 20 miles away from my house.

Pam...  LUCKY YOU !!! I know we would all love to get even some "temporary puppy kisses" from that sweet little Emma!!  

Just wish I wasn't SOOOO far away... I'm so jealous of all of you that are able to go to Nora's "Rattie Party"!   

I know there will be LOTS of pictures though... and I'm used to living most of my "away from home" life through pictures!

Karen G.
Lucy (JRT) & Holly (Rat Terrier)
Blind Dog Resources & Adoptions
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