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michelle


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
09/02/2008 8:11 PM  

Jordan's girlfriend broke up with him because he cant spend every moment of the day with him (she is in high school as a Senior) and he just started college, works almost full time and drills.  Would love to comfort him, but he is a "MAN" now and does not want that.  Just feel so bad for him cuz he still is my baby


michelle, mom to Sydney (JRT), Sonic (Rattie), Buddy(Jack-Rat) and Proud mom to Army son, Jordan

http://www.dogster.com/dogs/893222 Sydney
http://www.dogster.com/dogs/893220 Sonic
http://www.dogster.com/dogs/901405 Buddy



Amy


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
09/02/2008 8:13 PM  

Oh wow. That must be hard. On BOTH of you. poor guy. Probably for the best. Though I'm sure he doesn't want to hear that. Sounds as though they are just in different places in their lives. Aw. I am SO not looking forward to all that.


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michelle


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
09/02/2008 8:16 PM  

He put on his sweats and decided to go out for a run.


michelle, mom to Sydney (JRT), Sonic (Rattie), Buddy(Jack-Rat) and Proud mom to Army son, Jordan

http://www.dogster.com/dogs/893222 Sydney
http://www.dogster.com/dogs/893220 Sonic
http://www.dogster.com/dogs/901405 Buddy



Bailey's mom


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
09/02/2008 8:26 PM  
Oh, I can remember those days, when Bryan was younger he was heartbroken too many times. I got to wishing he wouldn't get a new girlfriend so he wouldn't have to go through it again if they broke up.

~Nancy~
aka Bailey's Mom
Caesar & Julia's mom


Alpha Feist
Alpha Feist
09/02/2008 8:29 PM  
I know what you're going through Michelle...My son Justin and his girlfriend (both were Juniors last year) went out for over a year and 2 months. When they broke up last winter it was so hard on him. I remember him crying in bed, I would just lay with him and try to comfort him, but I didn't seem to help. Over time he got better and started liking other girls. Just be there for him and give him a HUGE hug!!!

Diane~ loved by Caesar and Julia

"Don't count the days, make the days count..."
danbenau


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
09/02/2008 10:02 PM  
my two are kinda in the middle of that. It sucks to have to just stand by.

His name is Hendryx! He's a rat terrier! OK!
Mitzy's Mom


PAWesome
PAWesome
09/03/2008 6:57 AM  
Yeah, I've been there for Glenna's break ups, too....at least with girls you can still hug 'em and hold 'em while they cry it out.

Sorry about the girlfriend but it sounds like he had a good idea going for a run.

Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids

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Brandy


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
09/03/2008 8:07 AM  
Awww...I am so sorry. I am SOOOOO not ready for that stage with my boys.

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danbenau


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
09/03/2008 8:34 AM  
Somehow it works out as: ready or not... here it comes. Sigh.

His name is Hendryx! He's a rat terrier! OK!
PamWh


Rattitude Problem
Rattitude Problem
09/03/2008 8:54 AM  
Just be sure you don't bad-mouth her to him...in case they get back together again. My oldest has been with the same girlfriend since they were 15 years old. They broke up once a few years ago and got back together.

PamWh
aka Bob's Mom

If your rattie ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!
michelle


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
09/03/2008 10:48 AM  

I would not bad mouth her.  They are just going in different directions.  I reallydo not care to bad mouth anyone.  I didnt even do that about my ex-husband.  Think it would make me feel bad to do it to someone and I would not like to hear it done about me. 


michelle, mom to Sydney (JRT), Sonic (Rattie), Buddy(Jack-Rat) and Proud mom to Army son, Jordan

http://www.dogster.com/dogs/893222 Sydney
http://www.dogster.com/dogs/893220 Sonic
http://www.dogster.com/dogs/901405 Buddy



PamWh


Rattitude Problem
Rattitude Problem
09/03/2008 10:54 AM  
Posted By michelle on 09/03/2008 10:48 AM

I would not bad mouth her.  They are just going in different directions.  I reallydo not care to bad mouth anyone.  I didnt even do that about my ex-husband.  Think it would make me feel bad to do it to someone and I would not like to hear it done about me. 



I didn't mean you were that kind of person.  I meant to be careful about saying anything that might seem negative about her. 


PamWh
aka Bob's Mom

If your rattie ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!
michelle


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
09/03/2008 11:00 AM  
Posted By PamWh on 09/03/2008 10:54 AM
Posted By michelle on 09/03/2008 10:48 AM

I would not bad mouth her.  They are just going in different directions.  I really do not care to bad mouth anyone.  I didnt even do that about my ex-husband.  Think it would make me feel bad to do it to someone and I would not like to hear it done about me. 



I didn't mean you were that kind of person.  I meant to be careful about saying anything that might seem negative about her. 


Pam , I did not think you did.  I was just replying back to you.    I like the girl.  I just feel bad of Jord.  But he was feeling better this morning.  Thanks for your advice though.  It something good for everyoone to remember!!

michelle, mom to Sydney (JRT), Sonic (Rattie), Buddy(Jack-Rat) and Proud mom to Army son, Jordan

http://www.dogster.com/dogs/893222 Sydney
http://www.dogster.com/dogs/893220 Sonic
http://www.dogster.com/dogs/901405 Buddy



alice4512


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
09/03/2008 11:06 AM  

Plus he will always have Sydney.     My boyfriends brother is going through a divorce and taking it really bad. All he does is call and cry and want to talk and think she is coming back. It's to the point where we answer the phone, put it on speaker and go about our buisness because all he does is cry. Which is okay but sometimes I think it would be nice if he were stronger. I guess each person handles it in their own way but one thing forsure is everyone will survive and move on, it just takes time.


The great pleasure of a dog is that you may make a fool of yourself with him and not only will he not scold you, but he will make a fool of himself too

~Mom to my good boy Fred and my crazy girl Alice~
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