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dbleblanc


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
09/02/2008 12:49 AM  

We are out of town for an evacuation and I some how managed to track down my 19 year old son to take along with us to keep him safe. Well all that worked out great in the end. But now here we are after a 10 hour drive to get to Tyler TX, we spend one night in a hotel not far from here. Ashley picked up Molly and Busta and they are doing wonderful. After one night in that hotel we had to transfer to another for out week long stay at another hotel. We arrived today and has a little party due to the hurricane weakening and we seem to have faired very well according to neighbors that have stayed behind. We were able to talk to them this afternoon and they had gone and checked our house after the eye had passed through and said that we had some tree lymbs down but no major damage to our home other than chingles which we expected. The other thing was that we have no power which we expected too.

So al in all we came out of this in a wonderful way!!!!!! It was suppose to be so much worse. Thank god it was not!!!

So not that all sems to be over, We are now awaiting updates as to "when" we can return to home which we hope to find out tomorrow. Things depend on what happens to the storm now that it has passed our home with minimal damage as we know of it for now. We will have to deal will with impassable roads all the way there so much of our return will be relied on "our" local news for updates.

 

But now as I am sitting here typing this, I have just come in my room were my husband and Kasey are sleeping, other family members are all along the same floor in a row with us. Well my 19 year old son decided to disappear tonight. I have walked this parking lot and the surrounding wooded area and he is no were to be found. It has been a few hours since anyone has seen him last. I had paid for a room to put all of my kids in one room in the middle of everyone else and they are complaining that they want to go to bed but Tyler is missing and they do not want to stay up and wait for him. Well I have been sitting outside for over an hour and doing some searching along the way. I can't find him and he has not returned to any of the five rooms that we have.

It is now almost 1:00 am, do I continue to sit outside and wait? or should I just go to bed and wait for him to knock? We are all very tired after the last few days and are all ready to crash and burn now that we are all settled into a hotel that we will be staying in for a few days. Not like we drive for 10 hours and then have to get up early and put everything back into the car and move to another hotel just to unpack and get settled in all over again.

I/we are so frustrated tonight that my 19 year old would just take off like he did. No one wants to sleep with their door unlocked in a strange place. So this is why I am still up and debating on what the heck I am going to do. I mean, I need to get some sleep!!!!

 


Donna (mommy to Kasey & Molly)
GothGirl


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
09/02/2008 1:25 AM  

If hes 19 hes an adult. .But still I would be worried. Especially if he is not familar with the area. I hope everything works out and your son  comes back to the hotel where you guys are staying.


GothGirl


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
09/02/2008 1:29 AM  

 .  Did your son not take the key to his room when he left? If not maybe when he comes back he can go down to the front desk and they will give him a key so he can get in. 


dbleblanc


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
09/02/2008 1:37 AM  
Well he should have never taken off. We have spend the better part today trying to figure out just how we will get home safely. The fact that the storm was no where near what they predicted we all "knew" we would be going home before weeks end and possibly before the end ot the week. Everything was based on the reports tomorrow. If all reports were "good" then I was to call Ashley so I can get Molly and Busta back so we can try to make it home.

Well we work on this and after we are done "no one" can find my 19 year old. That was about 3.5 hours ago. We are looking at being able to possibly going home earlier than we expected but my son would never know because now he is MIA.

Only my kid!!!!!!!

Any way... I am sooo tired so I am going to bed. If he should return, maybe someone will hear him knocking. I don't know.

Donna (mommy to Kasey & Molly)
tiggarat


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
09/02/2008 1:54 AM  
that's a difficult/horrible situation...you don't need the added stress of a MIA son on top of every thing else. I hope for your sake he turns up soon.

Lisabeth

furbabies: Lucy and Molly (1 1/2 yr old decker ratties), and Rosie (3 yr old dobie)
Buddy - gone but never forgotten.

"I don't think he has any idea he's a dog, really. Of course, he thinks he has a rather odd figure for a man" - Dodie Smith
GothGirl


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
09/02/2008 2:00 AM  

No he should not have just taken off like that with out at least letting someone know. That would be the right thing to do. Do you think maybe he would try to go back to your home?  Does he drive? Is there anyway he could rent a car and drive back to LA?  I sure hope everything turns out okay.


dbleblanc


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
09/02/2008 2:11 AM  
Ok it is now 2:00am and I just now saw him sitting in the parking lot talking with a stranger. No he can not drive "legally" but not to say that he would not drive any way. But I see he out there and now before I can go to bed I have to go and meet him and try and get him into his room where he is to stay now that everyone is sleeping and the door is locked. Or I just take him in my room and make him sleep on the floor.

Anyway... we have a busy day tomorrow and I have to go deal with him. I will check in when I get a chance tomorrow which will be tomorrow more than likely. But we are now looking at making plans to make it back home where we have no power and will not be online for a while.

But I will let everyone know when we make that move back home which should be very soon according from the latest satilite views I have seen. That storm has proven to be "nothing" to worry about.

Donna (mommy to Kasey & Molly)
treble02


Alpha Feist
Alpha Feist
09/02/2008 5:48 AM  
so sorry Dona...more stress is the LAST thing you need now...I hope you were able to get him in the room with no problems last night and get some SLEEP!!! But I agree, he is an adult and if he hadnt come back, I probably would have just locked the doors and gone to bed (even if i couldnt sleep) I dunno,,,,such a hard situation and Im not a mom so i really dont know what i would do....

~ Mary, Trixi and Toa's Mommy,
PROUD Ratbone Rescues Volunteer!!!

tauney4


Alpha Feist
Alpha Feist
09/02/2008 7:02 AM  
well donna if it was me i would go to bed get some sleep and wait for him to knock.
rattytatty


Training Moderator
Training Moderator
09/02/2008 7:21 AM  
I think it's WAY past due that he stand on his own two feet... pay the consequences for his own actions, Donna. It's something we all have to do.... it's part of the growing up process, and sometimes people never truly grow up. I know you feel like a parent should naturally feel... but it's time for him to take responsibility for his own actions.

~Nora~
Mom to Hoss, Lil'Bit, Buster & Bailey, CGC, OA, OAJ
lynnygal


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
09/02/2008 11:22 AM  
Donna, since your son is 19.....and due to the extent to issues you have had in the last year or so.....I would have gone to bed. We have a similar situation with one of my husband's neice's son who is also 19 and has drug issues and has been in jail, etc. etc. The reality is that if he is on a path of self destruct, there is really nothing anyone is going to be able to do for him. He has to hit his own "rock bottom" whatever that is.....and when he decides to clean up his act, then that is when change will occur. It is sad and my husband and I have spoken many times about how you hate to just write a kid off....I mean really....even though he is legal by law.....we realize how immature and young they are......BUT.....you can only do so much and then they have to stand up and be responsible for themselves. I can only imagine as the "Mom" how tough this is......but with all you have been through......him running off like that was complete disregard for your family....especially with the threat of the hurricane. Take care and glad the storm was not as bad as everyone expected.

Lynn

--------------------- lynnygal ---------------------------------
winnihoohoo


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
09/02/2008 11:33 AM  

This may sound silly, but with so many people traveling togather, are you sure he made it to the new hotel? I mean, there is not a chance he got left at the other one? Do you know who he rode with? Was it you? You know, kinda like "Home Alone", movie?

danbenau


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
09/02/2008 8:13 PM  
I think that Donna said she saw him in the parking lot of the new hotel. Anyway, they're saying to keep away for a day or so because of threat of tornadoes, that was what I saw on CNN at a rest stop on the way from NY to PA. But this kid is known for irresponsibility, so I sympathize with Donna's plight. It's rough. I wish I had something useful to say, but I don't.

His name is Hendryx! He's a rat terrier! OK!
PamWh


Rattitude Problem
Rattitude Problem
09/03/2008 12:41 PM  
I'm sorry for the additional worries your son brought on. Was he trying to score some drugs? I hope that one day things will click in his head and he will want to change his life around. Believe me, I know how rough it is on you as I've been there and done that with a son.

PamWh
aka Bob's Mom

If your rattie ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!
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