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k_dmom33

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| 07/13/2008 1:06 AM |
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Its only been a couple days since Lacey passed and I do understand that Jack will go thru an adjustment period. Does anyone know how long this may last? He just isnt himself, which I totally expect would happen but I hate seeing him like this. His favorite thing has always been to go way out back and run and run and do circles and jump in the long grass. Him and Lacey would have fun but even if she was just laying in the grass or by me he would still romp around. He's not like that now. Every night at a certain time he would get all excited and jump on me and run to the back door. If Im not fast enough he would keep going back and forth until I get up and go out with him. Then he'd go bug Lacey until she got up to come out too. These past couple nights he hasnt done that at all. Not at any time during the day. He is sleeping more too. He's not whining or anything. He was sniffing her blankets the first day alot, so I took them away to wash. Should I be concerned or is it just the process he's got to go thru. Seeing him like this ALMOST makes me want to get him a buddy. Should I leave Laceys blankets for him, or would the scent just make him miss her more? This is the first time I've ever had to deal with an animal grieving. Thanks in advance for the advise. We are leaving in the morning for our mini vacation...maybe that will help him. |
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ivy

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| 07/13/2008 1:29 AM |
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Poor boy I think getting away will help all of you so many things for him to new things to smell and investigate I don't know how long it will last. I was watching the dog whisper last night and the little frenchie go back to his old self I think it was a week or two try and have a good time. |
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tiggarat

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| 07/13/2008 2:48 AM |
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Pets grieve for each other, just like we do...it's going to take time for him to realize that she's not going to come back. Anytime I've lost a pet, I've left their beds/blankets as they were for a time...as their scent fades, the other dogs seem to adjust to the fact that that one is no longer around. I know when I lost Buddy in January, the girls kept checking all his spots in the house, and looking at me with sad eyes. It was soo hard the first week, but as his scent faded more and more, they began to acept that he was gone. When they were no longer checking his spots, I decided it was time to wash the blankets...it took them a few weeks. I don't know...I'd think that completely getting rid of her scent so soon would confuse him more...I'm not an expert, but having the scent fade has always seemed to help my other dogs grieve. |
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Lisabeth
furbabies: Lucy and Molly (1 1/2 yr old decker ratties), and Rosie (3 yr old dobie) Buddy - gone but never forgotten.
"I don't think he has any idea he's a dog, really. Of course, he thinks he has a rather odd figure for a man" - Dodie Smith |
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dtls224

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| 07/13/2008 3:35 AM |
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Teresa, When I had to put my cat down few weeks ago Rainy went through this same thing and i found this web site. I pray it helps Jack. http://www.petplace.com/dogs/do-dogs-mourn/page1.aspx |
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tina224...live...laugh...love...and bark at the moon
He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." ~Unknown |
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gwacie

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| 07/13/2008 7:01 AM |
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When our Greyhound girl Billie died this past February it took 2-3 weeks for everyone to stop looking for her and seeming sad. It took Eddie the longest as they were the closest pals in the pack. Sad to watch - it's like it punctuates your own sadness to realize how it affects Jack too, I know. Hugs. |
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gwacie (Bethany) My Doggies: http://www.myadams.net/dogs/ Rescue: http://www.newrattitude.org |
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rattytatty

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| 07/13/2008 8:55 AM |
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| Yes indeed... pets DO grieve. When we lost Milly, Hoss wouldn't play at all... he would come into the kitchen and eat and that's about it. (we had no other dogs at the time... I think it helps to haver other dogs). After about six weeks of watching him sulk, I got Lil'Bit thinking that she would be just the thing to lift his spirts. But it took him a LONG LONG time to accept Lil' Bit, and it was sad cuz she wanted to play with Hoss so bad. Time will help Jack... might be you need to consider giving him a playmate... I'm not sure. I think things of this nature is different for each situation. I feel badly for Jack... and for all of you... NOT an easy time. *hugs* |
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~Nora~ Mom to Hoss, Lil'Bit, Buster & Bailey, CGC, OA, OAJ |
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k_dmom33

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| 07/13/2008 9:16 AM |
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| thanks for everthing guys! I havent washed all her blankets yet so I think I will put one back out for Jack in one of Laceys favorite spots. I'll just give him time to go through the process just like the rest of us. |
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~~Teresa~~ |
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LadyLes

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| 07/13/2008 10:14 AM |
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| This makes me so sad....I will keep all of you in my prayers... |
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There is nothing better than wine and chocolate! ~Ashley~ |
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