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Teddy's Mom


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
05/16/2007 8:21 AM  
Ok well I want another tattoo.  He says "your paws are two tattoos since there are two paws."  I told him "No they are one tattoo"  How can I talk him into letting me get another tattoo?"  Any sugestions?

Tabitha
DaisysMom


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<b>Moderator</b>
05/16/2007 8:25 AM  
Sorry, Tabitha. I have no idea. There is the old adage: It's better to ask for forgiveness than permission !!!

Tracey - Darlin' Daisy's Mom

Mitzy's Mom


PAWesome
PAWesome
05/16/2007 8:25 AM  
Does he not like too many tattoos or is it a money issue?

Mary Beth, mom to the Lollipop Kids

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Feisty
Feisty
05/16/2007 8:27 AM  
Hmmmm! It maybe just me but isn't it YOUR body. He's married to you not "owner" of you. I'm glad Brad lets me do what I want with my body. I have tats and I want another, too. Is there something that your hubby wants? Sometimes if I wait long enough there is always something Brad wants or wants to do so we make a friendly deal. He gets what he wants and I get what I want. He wants to golf almost every weekend so I get to go out for a girls night whenever AI want with no questions asked. Last year he went on a four day golf event so this year I got to go to the rattie meet in Tenn. Maybe you can make some sort of deal.

"You can't fix stupid." - Ron White

~ Jolene ~
Mommy to Apollo, Emma, & Indie


swatson6


Attention Starved
Attention Starved
05/16/2007 8:34 AM  
Posted By DaisysMom on 05/16/2007 8:25 AM
Sorry, Tabitha. I have no idea. There is the old adage: It's better to ask for forgiveness than permission !!!

I like this one

Sarah
Mom to Jack, Jeter and foster mom to Teagan



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Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
05/16/2007 8:54 AM  
I think you should (very seductively) tell him that he can pick out the tat and the location of it on your body--somewhere ONLY he would see and know about.

Trina, mom to Ali & Bama

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Teddy's Mom


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
05/16/2007 1:49 PM  
I told him he is married to me know owning me. I'd hate to do it but I just might just go and get it whenever I do find what I want. He's not fond of tattoo's. I'll just wait until he really wants something then we'll make a friendly trade.

Tabitha
RockysMom


Ratastic
Ratastic
05/16/2007 2:00 PM  
I have two and really want more. My hubbys is a little demanding as far as to WHERE they are (I really want one on my wrist he HATES the idea) but not really as far as how many (as long as I dont go crazy) He keeps me grounded as far as professionality. Helps me pick good spots to keep the hidden or show depending on my dress. I did make a deal with him once to put my tattoo on my neck..... I get it there and he can pick out a piercing for me- wherever...lol

Alicia H ~ Stepmom and Dogmom!
Teddy's Mom


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
05/16/2007 3:19 PM  
I wish I could say where for Steve. But he would tell the guy to put a boot print on my butt! Or Elmer Fud saying "Come out of there you rascally rabbit!"

Tabitha
Teddy's Mom


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
05/16/2007 9:45 PM  
Well I told him that I posted about how I want another tattoo and that one person said that we should make a trade. Well I told him "Since I'm giving you some of my inheritance from my grandma's estate that I should be able to get another tattoo." He said "Are you trying to bribe me?" I said "Yes I am" I told him that I don't know what the other tattoo will be just that I want another one. He said "What are you doing turning into a biker chick? I haven't told him that I would like a motorcycle yet.

Tabitha
Brandy


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
05/16/2007 9:50 PM  
Kevin knows that I want another Tatoo and is all for it! Of course he wants another one too, so I guess we'll have to get them together again! (of course this tat is gonna be MUCH smaller..I don't think I could sit through two hours of tatooing again!!)

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NavyDvrWife


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
05/16/2007 9:53 PM  
Like Nike, "JUST DO IT!"  haha  I don't want you to make him mad.  My husband was happy when I got my second tattoo and would like if I got a few more but I like the ones I have and am happy with them for now.

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Ordie55


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
05/16/2007 9:57 PM  
Jen needs help with hers too!
She is looking for a Blond, 36-24-36, Very Hot!
Morgan


Moderator
<b>Moderator</b>
05/16/2007 10:01 PM  
I don't have a tattoo yet but have been wanting one for a while. Mike isn't thrilled about the idea but would never tell me not to get it. I'm sure if I wanted several tattoos he would have something to say though.

-Morgan (Bella's Mommy)
kimrose


Feisty
Feisty
05/16/2007 10:17 PM  
I always wanted one on my foot, up by my pinky toe, like a lizard holding onto my toe with his tail or something like that... My sister has one exactly like that but its a seahorse, but I am deathly afraid of needles so I don't see it happening anytime soon  ... I just now asked Kevin "what would you say if I wanted to get a tatoo?" he said "have a ball!  I don't own you..."  excellent response

Just a quick thought... you can tell him they have advanced greatly in tatoo removal, so if he doesn't like it you guys can "discuss" removing it

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littlebit


Newbie
Newbie
05/16/2007 10:27 PM  
why should anyone have to ask permission to do something to their own body. i think u should get one if u want it. of course my sweety knows when i decide to get more ink-i'll get more ink. lol good luck.
Ordie55


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
05/16/2007 10:34 PM  
I wanted a round one on my butt that said USDA 100% Pure Beef!
BonitaKaz


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
05/16/2007 11:14 PM  
I have Four.
Adam hates that I have so many. But basically if I nag him long enough he'll give in. He actually paid for my last one

*Bonita* Mom to Nibbler & Laika!
Kasey's Mom


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
05/17/2007 8:51 AM  
hmmmm, once you get one, you want another... my husband has 5..... and i think he's done....... for now as far as i know....

I have always wanted to get one... for about 15 years... but I haven't found the one that grabbed my eye. because I know once they are there, they are there for good. and trying to think of a location where I would want to put it, etc.

But I did get an eyebrow pierced.... and had it on for 4 years... then I took it off, because I was going into the medical field..... now i wished i hadn't. I might get that done again... hmmmmmm.. we'll see! :-)

Mardi
Momma to Kasey and Indy

~~Dance like nobody's watching~~
Alpha Rattie


Ratastic
Ratastic
05/17/2007 8:59 AM  
Haha your husband reminds me of richie. Except the opposite. Richie's always trying to get me to go get a tattoo or peircing and i'm against it! lol i guess it's a mix of being afraid of needles and the pain and also not really knowing what i want. I would say do what you can to negotiate but if not, it is YOUR body and you should go and get the 2nd tattoo once you find what you really want. Maybe like the other's were saying, find a place that's alot less noticeable or that only he knows about. maybe even surprise him with something that's maybe... sexy?? LoL I don't know. Just some ideas
Brandy


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
05/17/2007 9:41 AM  
Posted By Kasey's Mom on 05/17/2007 8:51 AM
hmmmm, once you get one, you want another... my husband has 5..... and i think he's done....... for now as far as i know....

I have always wanted to get one... for about 15 years... but I haven't found the one that grabbed my eye. because I know once they are there, they are there for good. and trying to think of a location where I would want to put it, etc.

But I did get an eyebrow pierced.... and had it on for 4 years... then I took it off, because I was going into the medical field..... now i wished i hadn't. I might get that done again... hmmmmmm.. we'll see! :-)


You could always do like I did.  I went in about a week before I was supposed to get my tatoo and sat down with the artist and told him the things that I liked, things that meant something to me, and gave him so me ideas to go with.  Then a few days later he called me back and had drawn something for me, so I went by and saw it and fell in love with it!!  (He must have liked it too b/c he took several pictures of it when he was done with me, and none of my hubby's!!)

PROUD Home Visit Coordinator for Ratbone's Rescue!!

This is Pirate Country, we bleed Purple and Gold!!!!!

GO ECU!!!
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